..........A Kiss Is Just a Kiss...

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..........A Kiss Is Just a Kiss...
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Mon, 06-30-2003 - 5:07pm
Aloha Ladies!

Yesturday I refused to give my husband a kiss before he left the house to go grocery shopping. I always kiss my sweet William goodbye but I was ticked off about whatever and so I told him just to go. I am sick again so I think that is why I was being so mean to him. Any how I stormed up stairs to pout and William came up and jump in bed with me. He asked me for a kiss so he could go to the store for food and I refused again.... instead I got up and took a shower and then went back down stairs to watch t.v.. Well William comes down after me and asked for a kiss goodbye again and me being the but hole I am some times I said no. So he took off his shoes and crawled up on the couch to watch t.v. until I came to my senses and gave him a kiss goodbye. Well I finally did by yesturday afternoon...


William always likes us to shop at Albertson's early in the morning to get it done before it gets to crowded because he hates screaming kids running around the store while he is shopping. Yesturday he did not get to the store until late in the afternoon and when he did the store was blocked off with a lot of yellow police tape. Come to find out about 9:30 in the morning this mentally disturbed man weilding a samuri-style sword killed two workers and slached three other shoppers at albertson's before the police shot and killed him Sunday. My husband and I always do our grocery shoping about that time thank God William refused to leave the house without a kiss or he could have been hacked up by this store worker to. God does work mysterious ways ha?

Now I am kind of confused should I or shouldn't I give the guy a kiss when he leaves the house?

To weird ha girls?

Aloha,

Leilani

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Registered: 03-25-2003
Mon, 06-30-2003 - 7:52pm
Ever since 9/11 I try to make sure that if I leave the house or dh does that I've gotten a kiss and a hug. Good for William! In this world ya just never know what waits for us. Sorry you're not feeling up to snuff.Hugs, BB
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 07-01-2003 - 2:50am
How awful, Lei, and I feel for the families

affected.

You are right, God has a plan and I try to make

sure I follow the ones he actually reveals to

us individually, lol. If not, my life would

be such a mess!

So sorry that you are sick again. Feel better

soon, Lei, and we'd love to see you post

much more often...we enjoy your posts!!

love and aloha,

Cindy


~*~ Aloha to all .... ~*~

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Registered: 03-25-2003
Tue, 07-01-2003 - 9:17am
Holy cow, Lei! I read about that incident in the paper, how lucky that you stalled William so he wasn't there when it happened!! I bet you don't want to even think about what might have happened if he'd been there. That's really scary! Hug him real tight today, girl!!!

Hugs, Pam

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Registered: 03-25-2003
Tue, 07-01-2003 - 1:52pm
Lei,

Listen to the Voices in your head. Doesn't always mean your one screw short. LOl Just don't answer them.

Glad to hear sweet William is OK. What an awful thing to happen.

Hugs,

Rain

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Tue, 07-01-2003 - 2:43pm
I totally agree because I always make William give me a kiss before bed or leaving the house no matter how upset we are at each other....But I was so upset with having to buy his racist mom a seven thousand dollar car that day that I just kind of lost it! I can not remember the last time I have ever refused to give him a kiss so that is why this is so bizzare...... I am not this way at all... it was so out of character for me to act like this that this whole incident is realy a miracle!

Have a nice day BB missed ya!

Aloha,

Leilani

Aloha,

Lei

 

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Tue, 07-01-2003 - 2:53pm
Aloha Cindy!

I know the poor families. There was this one old lady that came to her husbands aid while he was getting sliced up and actually saved his life. But for the rest of the people I feel so so sorry for them. I went and put some flowers by the store yesturday because I felt so bad for the families involved. Last night on the news they could not stop talking about this so I had to just turn the t.v. off.... because it affected me so much. It was just to close of a call... But I learned a lot about myself.... when self is saying to do or not do something then I know there has to be a good reason behind it... so I am not going to question my behavior and just go with it.

Nice to see you again Cindy!

Aloha,

Leilani

Aloha,

Lei

 

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Tue, 07-01-2003 - 3:07pm
Pam I can not express myself in words on how horrible this was for us to experience! The poor people who got hacked up with a sword I feel so bad for them and at the same time happy I was a butt hole to William that day so he stayed home. I know that sounds horrible of me but it scared me to death because he would of been there that morning. The store is going to open up again today but we are never going to go there ever again that is how spooked we are about this whole horrible mess. How in the world could this happen in Irvine and just down the street from me is crazy and so unbelivable that in some ways I want to think this is just a bad dream. We were nominated a few years ago as being one of the safest cities in the U.S. but the city is growing so fast that now we are having more and more problems... I did go and put flowers and lite a candle and left a card to the famlies involved in this horrible insident yesturday because I felt so bad for them. Just thinking about this makes me cry...

Aloha dear ole buddy Pam,

Leilani

Aloha,

Lei

 

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Tue, 07-01-2003 - 3:33pm
Oh Rain Spirit let me tell ya right now I am so so happy William did not leave because I was being so mean to him! At the same time I feel so guilty that I gave the guy a million kisses, hugs and pats on the poo poo. Plus I celebrated his stuborness that night with a home cooked meal for once. I feel so lucky and at the same time so so so sad for the people who lost there lives in this way. This is truly a miracle one that I am going to tell my racist mother in law about on her fourth july birthday because she was the reason why I was so upset that morning... with William. Can you imagine how it feels to have to support a racist person who has run out of money and so now you have to support them when they hate your guts. Well out of this horrible racist thing came out a good thing and saved Williams life. So I am going to go up to the biggot on her birthday and give her a big ole hawaiian hug and say thank you to her!

And to the voices in my head well I am going throw them a party too and let them guide me more often after this. But it is really William that gets all the credit here... for not breaking our golden rule which states we never go to bed angry at each other and never with hold a kiss because maybe that will be the last time we see each other when we leave the house. And for that screw that is still there but a little loose well I think I am never going to fix it Rain Spirit! ha ha ha...

Aloha dear Rain Spirit...

Hula girl

Aloha,

Lei