My friends mom passed today

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My friends mom passed today
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Wed, 03-12-2008 - 11:54pm

Donna asked if I would come and watch Irene for a few hours today while she went to pick up the morphine.


I went over after chat and stayed until about 2 when they got home.  DOnna called me at about 3:30 and  said can I come and tell her if her mom has passed... so I ran over there and told her I thought so.


I was suppose to be at the doctors at that time but I called to say I would not be there as I had to go to Donnas ... hung up on the girl and she called Donnas to see if the dr should come there. 


So He came and pronounced her dead for us.  Very emotional time for Donna and her husband but for me as well as I got quite close to her these past few months.  


I did stay with Donna until they came to get her mom... then brought her to my house, as she was unable to watch her mom leaving for the last time.


It is such a relief as she was really having a hard 2 days and  I just knew it was time.


ANyhow prayers if you can for her  having a speedy journey home.


I now have to go as it has been a very rough day!


 


Hugs, 


 

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Fri, 03-14-2008 - 5:10pm

why thanks ,Lor!


while

Dutch

 

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Fri, 03-14-2008 - 9:08pm

Hugs, to you!


 


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Sat, 03-15-2008 - 10:59am
{{{Lor}}} bless you for being such a wonderful friend and caring person. I'm sure you get as much from the relationship as Donna and her mother but you being there for Donna was simply God's work. You are special. Take care of yourself. Praying for Donna & dm.

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Sat, 03-15-2008 - 11:35pm

Dutch it goes to show you we may touch another in a way we often will not hear about.

     

 

          

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Sat, 03-15-2008 - 11:39pm

Ah thanks RJ!

     

 

          

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Sat, 03-15-2008 - 11:51pm

Oh I do feel so blessed to have such a dear friend as Donna and to get to know her mom has been a real pleasure.

     

 

          

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Sun, 03-16-2008 - 2:18am

Lor,


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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sun, 03-16-2008 - 3:36am

Lor, I'm so glad you were able to help your friend and her
mom in all ways that you could.
And I know you will continue to be a blessing :)

Hugs,


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Sun, 03-16-2008 - 10:37am

Have been trying to journal all I eat...therefore cutting down...and exercise more.....This loss has taken a year....really pretty sad....but it is off and I just keep plugging away!


Hugs, Ruth


 


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