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Registered: 03-29-2003
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Sat, 03-15-2008 - 5:59pm

Hello


I don't think I have ever posted on this board before.  I am a little afraid to disclose things about myself online but I am finding myself growing older and lonely.  I am 44 yr. divorced women.  I have been divorced now for 10 yrs. but it was just hard.  My youngest is still 15 yr.  I work a lot and I don't really have many close friends.   I have dated but nothing came out of it.  I don't think I really want to date.  I mean I really want to just have a friend to talk to and spend time with, not one to take over my life. 


Is there anyone else out there like me? 


 


 


 


 

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iVillage Member
Registered: 03-19-2003
In reply to: cindymom2001
Sat, 03-15-2008 - 6:36pm

Hi Cindy


Welcome to our board. I am Mary, married, have two grown children and two adorable little grandsons with another grandchild on the way. I am 58 years old.


I have never been divorced but some of the ladies that come to this board have been. Hopefully some of them will drop and respond to your post.

                          &n
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: cindymom2001
Sun, 03-16-2008 - 3:21am

Aloha, CindyMom, and welcome to this great board.
Feel free to share here, as we are all friends that have
been together on this board for over 7 years.

As for myself, I am in Honolulu, married with 6 kids and
12 grandkids and would love to have more.

We look forward to seeing you here alot; also, please
join us for live chat, times listed at the top of the
board.

Always,


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~*~ Aloha to all .... ~*~

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Registered: 03-25-2003
In reply to: cindymom2001
Sun, 03-16-2008 - 8:49am

Welcome to the board, Cindymom! You will like it here...lots of really nice ladies and lots of fun...just what you need if you are looking for friends.


I was a bit apprehensive when I first began posting here...but you don't have to worry.

 

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Registered: 04-09-1999
In reply to: cindymom2001
Sun, 03-16-2008 - 10:40am

Hello, and welcome...I am Ruth and I am married for many years.


 


iVillage Member
Registered: 03-20-2003
In reply to: cindymom2001
Mon, 03-17-2008 - 2:13am
Hello, welcome to our friendly, fun board.

       


 


                              &n

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Registered: 03-01-2006
In reply to: cindymom2001
Mon, 03-17-2008 - 7:39am

Hi, Cindy


Welcome to our board! The ladies here ARE wonderful...I have been coming here for years.


I like what Char told you...very good perspective.


I too was divorced...after 20 yrs of marriage..my kids were teens...have been in another relationship for 14 yrs now...


life and relationships ebb and flow, morph over time


I have a dd, ds dil and 2 dgds and 1 dgs


I am semi-retired...


hope to see you again

Dutch



Dutch

 

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Registered: 03-19-2003
In reply to: cindymom2001
Tue, 03-18-2008 - 10:36am

Welcome to our group Cindy!

     

 

          

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Registered: 11-12-1998
In reply to: cindymom2001
Tue, 03-18-2008 - 12:20pm

Hi Cindy, and welcome to the board. Like Char, I was divorced for some time with 2 daughters and did all the child-raising including the teen years, ugh. It was not a fun time at all, and I worked full time, too. So I think I know where you're coming from. You sound a bit depressed, though, and wonder if you've ever talked to a counselor about how you are doing. It's really been helpful to me at different times in my life.


Like Char, too, I finally met someone that has turned out to be my soulmate and best friend. I only regret that we didn't meet years and years ago. Could have done without all the pain and difficulties.


At any rate, let me just say that coming here too has been a blessing. I have such good friends here and you will, too. I've been coming here for about, sheesh, what? 6-7 years? and have met many of the ladies in person, too. It's a very encouraging and caring group. We have fun here, too.


Welcome again,
RED


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iVillage Member
Registered: 03-29-2003
In reply to: cindymom2001
Sun, 03-23-2008 - 12:50pm

Thanks .. all of you are all sweet and welcoming!

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-19-2003
In reply to: cindymom2001
Sun, 03-23-2008 - 12:55pm

Hi Cindy


Everyone makes mistakes and sometimes there is just no reason why. I hope the ladies on this board who have been divorced will be able to help you feel better about your situation.


Hope you have a nice Easter!!


HUGS


                          &n

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