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| Mon, 03-31-2008 - 10:41am |
For some reason I am not aware of.Duston an Andrea are shunning Heather/John .Dustons big sister.
Heather is clueless as to what she could have done to deserve this.An of course I dont know.
Saturday at the bowling alley.They were at opposite sides of the room.Andrea more so.
Heather asks Duston if they wanted to come see their new place.
And Duston said I dont think so. It smells like smoke.She assured him her new home is smoke free.He still said no.
Duston also picked on Devins extra chubbieness.This was uncalled for.
Then Andrea an Duston called Heathers baby an albino.Which really upset her.And hurt her.
She says how dare they act like that.Heather says what have I done.Duston and I were very close.Now he wont even go see them?
Holly(#3) says she has felt tension between Heather,John,Duston,Andrea and doesnt get it either.And that they treat her different too.
My intuition tells me to stay out of this.I have my own problem with my son. BUT my heart says different.
I wish I knew the right way to handle this.

Hi Doreen
Sounds like a difficult situation. Probably best to stay out of it however having said that maybe you could talk to your Ds and find out what the problem is. At least that way Heather would know why.
Good luck
HUGS
Not sure what I can say, other than it is sad that there is a conflict going on there. I hope that they can get over what ever it is and start to talk again.
Mabe it will take your
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Andy our oldest son started dating Nicole.
Doreen....Only one way...STAY OUT of it!!