Please with me luck girls!!!

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Please with me luck girls!!!
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Mon, 05-26-2008 - 10:41am

Hello ladies,


As you guys know, I'm in the process of getting my divorce....Finally!  My atty has set up a mediation at the courthouse the beginning of June.  My stbx is being escorted to the courthouse from a correctional institution. I have not seen him in about a year.  As the time gets closer, my anxiety is rearing its ugly head and I need some good luck mental vibes.  After talking to his family, I have a feeling that he is going to make this really hard on me.  My atty says not to sweat it, that I don't have to agree with anything at this point and see if we can work something out, but still I so afraid that I won't have a place to live if , when we go to court, it's decided that I have to sell my house.


I'm on diability, getting assistance, he left me...twice, stopped contributing to the bills after he was fired from his job, I lost my health insurance and he didn't even both to tell me. 


Any input on this who have been through it, would be appreciated.  To be honest, I'm scared to death!!!


Just wanted to get this off my chest.  Thanks for reading.


Luv and hugs to all!!!


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Mon, 05-26-2008 - 11:27am

Hi Terry


Hang in there girl. Things are going to go your way in this divorce I just know it. Your soon to be ex dh was the one that caused the problems in this marriage and no way you would loose your home. Being nervous about all of this is normal. Listen to your lawyer and everything will go well for you.


Love and HUGS


                          &n
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Mon, 05-26-2008 - 5:05pm
(((((((((Terry))))))))), your attorney will not let you lose your home.

       


 


                              &n

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Mon, 05-26-2008 - 6:33pm

(((Terry)))

     

 

          

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Tue, 05-27-2008 - 10:18am

Hi Terry. It sure is a tough and nervewracking time for you, but I think you have a lot going for you.

Susan siggie
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Wed, 05-28-2008 - 7:09pm

(((Terry))) its understandable to be nervous right now but you have a strong case and I don't think you will lose your home. Listen to your lawyer. Positive vibes coming your way.

Hugs, Bernie
Hugs, Bernie