A brief update

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A brief update
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Thu, 06-26-2008 - 8:57am

Well, the "flurry" has settled some here for a few days anyway.  Mother (following her second fall and second surgery) is back in the rehab facility where they are doing limited physical therapy as she is still "non-weight-bearing" status.  My concern now is that Medicare will decide she is on "maintaining " rather than "showing improvement" and will cut her off, forcing us to move her. This facility is such a good one and I would prefer she was allowed to stay in order to get the therapy all the way through to the walking stage.   Unfortunately, the rules and regulations are so complicated and even the doctor can't always overcome them! We have offered to private pay, but were told they don't have that option.  Grrr.....


Anyway, I am only spending about two hours with her each day now....a better situation as I have some time for me.  Still every day is planned around her, and I do all her personal laundry.  Believe me, with food spills and incontinence.....there is a fair amount of laundry.


I am planning to have both sons and wives and dgd here for a cookout on the 4th.....trying to re-establish some family normality.  I am really pretty depleted of physical and mental and emotional energy and I am trying to actively regain some of that.  More easily said than done when I am the sole caretaker!  Some of you have experienced that so you know what I mean.


I'm taking time to read and respond to posts today...good to catch up again!

                           Hugs bugsSooze
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Registered: 03-19-2003
Thu, 06-26-2008 - 12:01pm

Hi Sooze


I am glad your Mom is getting such good care and I hope she will be able to continue to stay in this facility. Sounds like a good one.


Happy that you are getting more time to do things for you and your family hope your holiday will be a good one.


Love


                          &n
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Thu, 06-26-2008 - 12:10pm

Oh Sooze I so hope that she can stay at that facility... sounds like it is a good one!


I think it is a good idea to have that family cookout... will sort of give you a break from it all!

     

 

          

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Thu, 06-26-2008 - 2:24pm

Oh dear!Do hope she gets to stay put till she can walk.


Have a great time on the 4th.I have no plans.

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Thu, 06-26-2008 - 5:43pm

Wow, Sooze, such a busy time for you, but seems like you always are. I hope your mom can stay put for a while too. It's so hard on everyone when

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Thu, 06-26-2008 - 7:28pm

well, Sooze


I hope that she will be able to stay there, as it seems the best place for her


yes, you need some time for yourself,and some time for normal family activities


have to "compartmentalize" and one of those compartments is for YOU!!!


little time each day for you: a walk, reading, checking posts, a crossword..whatever


all best wishes!


hugs

Dutch


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Fri, 06-27-2008 - 8:24am
Thanks Mare....we are hoping for the best.
Susan siggie
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Fri, 06-27-2008 - 8:25am
Thanks Lor....what a journey it is!
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Fri, 06-27-2008 - 8:27am

Thanks so much.

Susan siggie
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Fri, 06-27-2008 - 8:37am

Hi Red.

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Fri, 06-27-2008 - 8:43am

Hi there Dutch!

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