Janet is gone!

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Registered: 03-25-2003
Janet is gone!
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Sun, 06-29-2008 - 9:10pm

Remember a few weeks back whe she and I got into it about her behavior at the daycare? Well, I waited to email my ds until I cooled down and I could put things into prespective, I really scrutinized both of us and our reactions. Plus I reminded him she was only supposed to be here 6 months.


Janet sent me a scathing email titled "Nice Email you sent to Ralph" then proceeded to tell me he never wants to see me again and how all my family hates me because of the things I say behind their backs. And that JT and Kelsey have told her all the mean things I've said about her...duh chick, everything I've said behind your back I've already said to your face!


She emailed Ralph who immediately took her side and said when he comes home he will no longer visit me. She also said all my kids hate me because I talk behind their backs and that is why they don't speak to me. What is she smoking?!


I sent her emails to my dd who went balistic because now this chick is speaking for her and is totally incorrect!  DD called Ralph and read him the riot act saying he's choosing an almost total stranger over his mother and family, reminded him of how much I have done for the both of them and told him he is digging himself a grave he does not want to dig. Ralph and I emailed each other and we're fine.


Anyhooo, its seems all the chaos has brought some good and Janet is moving out! I hope she leaves the oil paintings I've done, which she was so fond of, the AC I bought when it was still my room, my bed, linens, pillows and come to think about it everything in the room she didn't cart back with her in Tupperware Totes from FL. Get this. When I reminded her I moved out of my room and house to accomodate her she responded by saying...you didn't have to move. Like she would have slept on the sofa bed?  Her new roommate has already told her she has living room and kitchen privledges but is to change things in her room ONLY!


I do not see this happening since no sooner moving into my house she changed everything to the point she was ready to throw out my mom's beat up cookbook until Kelsey told her that would not be wise since I'd freak! She threw out the ash I collected from 911 in NYC, the ash from the 1980 Mt St Helen's eruption. I had not only the heavier ash collected at the site but the fine powered ash which preceeded the eruption and collected by a dear friend who has since passed so ther ash held vert special memories for me. Also lost to her hand were 25,000 yr. old snail shell fossils this dear friend and I collected together and cannot be replaced.


The kicker is since she's been working at the daycare my engagement and opal ring plus my SS card are missing. One day Kelsey suggested I take off my rings because everytime I put on a pair of latex gloves they'd rip causing me to use more and it made sense to me.


Not having a criminal mind, and never thinking someone I've treated so well would ever rob me, left them right where I took them off...on the kitchen windowsill. I never missed them until after the accident and the contractors were ready to begin work. Since they were strangers I wanted to move my jewlery to a safer place...they were gone! I stripped this house looking for them but no luck. Never thinking to check on my SS card which has been in the same place since issued. Not until I needed to make a copy of it for the state and could not find it! Its gone as well. Now I have to call the SS office and do a credit check. When I find out who it is you ladies will hear about it on the nightly news!

Hugs, Bernie
Hugs, Bernie
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: macbernie
Mon, 06-30-2008 - 12:36am

Sheesh, Bern, that chicka is a piece of work!
Well, let Karma have its way with her huh.
Hope you have a good week ahead!

Hugs,


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In reply to: macbernie
Mon, 06-30-2008 - 6:13am

Grams

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In reply to: macbernie
Mon, 06-30-2008 - 12:46pm

Bern, make sure to have your DD or someone there AT you house when she packs up. I'd go in that room beforehand and make sure your paintings and anything else you treasure is out of there before she goes through it.


Good riddance to bad rubbish, I say. Glad you and Ralph are okay now. Good grief!

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In reply to: macbernie
Mon, 06-30-2008 - 1:21pm

Hi Bernie


Good riddence to that girl!! I am sorry about the things you lost that cannot be replaced and I sure hope there are no problems with your SS or credit rating.


Keep us posted.

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In reply to: macbernie
Mon, 06-30-2008 - 6:26pm

WOW! some story!! good riddance!!


good luck with it all!

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In reply to: macbernie
Mon, 06-30-2008 - 9:52pm

Well Bern it sounds like it was not a moment too soon for her to move on out!

     

 

          

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In reply to: macbernie
Wed, 07-02-2008 - 6:48pm

Good advice!


Kat