Random thought for the day....

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Random thought for the day....
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Fri, 07-30-2010 - 10:23am

Why do people feel the need to tell you what to do when you are upset, rather than being supportive?  If I am 'upset', I don't need or want a lecture on what I am doing wrong.  I need to 'talk'. 


(thanks guys for being so supportive and not lecturing me!)


I really miss my mom right now. 


Sending you all major hugs!


 

 



 

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Mon, 08-02-2010 - 9:28pm

((((( Cheryl )))))


There are many times I miss my mom, too. Thank goodness for wonderful friends! They've held me together many times.

Jan


Jan


 

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Sat, 07-31-2010 - 11:27am

HI Cheryl


Seems to me when they do that they think they are helping you find an answer to your problems. A better answer is to just listen if you ask me.

                                          

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Fri, 07-30-2010 - 1:32pm

I called my aunt last night.


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Fri, 07-30-2010 - 12:55pm

that is a goos question to think about....sometimes we just need validation on what we are thinking/doing...not a lecture...I used to get those ALL the time with my dad and it just drives me crazy!!

hope your day is better, take care and sending a "pat on the back"...

Susan

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Fri, 07-30-2010 - 12:06pm
Thanks for the hugs Sooze!

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Fri, 07-30-2010 - 11:26am

Good question!!

Susan siggie