I'm freaking out. . .
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I'm freaking out. . .
| Mon, 07-28-2003 - 11:35am |
Hi all...
I'm really freaking out, and I don't know what to do. I lost my virginity in May, and had a normal period in May, and June, but I haven't had anything this month. And although I have been irregular in the past, I didn't have a reason to freak out because I wasn't having sex then. My last period was June 12th. I did experience some mild bleeding at some point, but I don't remember if it was before or after my period. I just associated it with the fact that I had recently lost my virginity, and I had read that the first few times minor bleeding might occur. But now I'm worried that it could have been Implantation bleeding. I haven't had many of the common signs of pregnancy; just things like minor cramping (which I was hoping was PMS), headaches (but I always get terrible migraines before my period), nausea (which could be nerves; and I haven't been sick yet) and recently a sharp almost stabbing pain in my abdomen, and breasts; but I have only experienced that since i've been looking up symptoms, and it is possible that those are in my head. I'm afraid to take a pregnancy test because I'm afraid of the result. It's not like I don't want children, SOMEDAY, but I'm still in school, and so is my boyfriend, and I'm just not ready for it yet. We have always used protection while having sex, and I was going to start the pill this month, I just haven't been able to yet. I haven't told anybody yet, and I'm really really scared. Could somebody please give me some suggestions of what to do?? Thanks.
I'm really freaking out, and I don't know what to do. I lost my virginity in May, and had a normal period in May, and June, but I haven't had anything this month. And although I have been irregular in the past, I didn't have a reason to freak out because I wasn't having sex then. My last period was June 12th. I did experience some mild bleeding at some point, but I don't remember if it was before or after my period. I just associated it with the fact that I had recently lost my virginity, and I had read that the first few times minor bleeding might occur. But now I'm worried that it could have been Implantation bleeding. I haven't had many of the common signs of pregnancy; just things like minor cramping (which I was hoping was PMS), headaches (but I always get terrible migraines before my period), nausea (which could be nerves; and I haven't been sick yet) and recently a sharp almost stabbing pain in my abdomen, and breasts; but I have only experienced that since i've been looking up symptoms, and it is possible that those are in my head. I'm afraid to take a pregnancy test because I'm afraid of the result. It's not like I don't want children, SOMEDAY, but I'm still in school, and so is my boyfriend, and I'm just not ready for it yet. We have always used protection while having sex, and I was going to start the pill this month, I just haven't been able to yet. I haven't told anybody yet, and I'm really really scared. Could somebody please give me some suggestions of what to do?? Thanks.
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| Mon, 07-28-2003 - 11:56am |
I would buy an over the counter preg test this afternoon and wait untill tomorrow morning to take it. I would also schedual a visit to the doctors for a check up (which you willl need if you are planning on taking the pill). Chances are theyt if you used protection and used it properly you will not be preg. Good luck.

