3wks Late , but BFN on all tests, HELP?
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| Tue, 07-29-2003 - 2:00pm |
AF has always been regular with me since she first arrived when I was 12. Her last normal visit was May 15th, then she spotted a visit for 2days in June, and then spotted for less than 24 hours on July 19th. Which was a week late. I want to be pregnant so bad.
I went to the OB/GYN on Thursday and he said he tested my urine twice and both times came back negative. I told about when I was pregnant with my son, and he acted like he didn't believe me. He told me it wasn't possible that I was in my 2nd trimester before a test showed positive. So he gave me some pills to help jumpstart AF and there is NO WAY IN HELL I am going to take those with the chance of aborting my baby.
Has anyone experience the same thing with the tests? I want to start celebrating my pregnancy if I am. I feel pregnant and I am 95-98% positive that I am.
ANY advice will be greatly appreciated.
Amanda

My dr. told me that maybe I am in early early pregnancy.... since I never ever late before, My breasts are sore, lower abdomen cramping, frequent urination...... so.. the best thing is just wait until the result came back...
Good luck for you all ladies...
In your case, the only thing I can suggest is, seeing as this has happened in the past, and you seem pretty confident you are pg, get your doctor to dol an ultrasound. (It sounds like your doctor is not very helpful though).
If he refuses, go to a planned parenthood/clinic and see if you can get one there. Tell them your history and your concerns. I am sure you can find someone out there to provide tests to ease your mind either way.
One thing I have learned, never ignore your instincts!
Hope that helps...Good luck and I hope you get your BFP soon.
I agree that you (we) need to find better doctors. When I went in last week for an exam, the doctor told me that I was not PG, my body is not 21 anymore (I'm 32) and it takes a while to respond to missing a pill. That's not a good answer and I left still confused and now angry. I've been on the pill for 11 years, missed and delayed pills occasionally for the last 9, and still been every 28 days to the T. She told me to go home and not think about it, finish up the pack of pills and AF would come. If not, they'd change my pill to another one.
***SHOULD I STILL BE TAKING THE PILLS?*** Has anyone been in the situation where you were not TTC and on the Pill and then thought you might be PG? If I am PG, I don't want to abort by taking pills. Thanks.
I guess my advice would depend on whether you want to be pregnant and your personal beliefs about the beginning of life. If a pregnancy may be wanted, I'd wait it out without taking the pills. Otherwise, I'd follow the advice you got from your doctor.
If you're not pregnant, this may have stirred up some desires about being pregnant. It may be no accident. It might be time to have the big talk with your significant!
Good luck and I hope everything turns out the way you want.
Yours,
Kate
Kate