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Sat, 08-02-2003 - 12:03pm
Ive been lurking for about a week now and have decided to post.. My situation is a little different.Im a single mother of 2 kids. I went off my bcp's last month because i was bleeding all the time and i didnt tell my exboyfriend..I guess i wasnt using my brain because i know i cant handle another baby and in reality i dont want another one..I'm sorry if that offends anyone here.. Anyways i have been having a few symptoms,but AF isnt due until August 11. I told my ex and he said if i am pregnant he wants the baby,but not me..I am such an emotional wreck.. I guess i came here for support because i have no one to turn to..I'm scared. I guess just prayers and positive thoughts that it comes out negative. I got pregnant with my daughter the month i stopped my bcp's thats why i'm so scared..I'm going to the doctors on Wednesday for a blood test,but its constantly on my mind..I cant sleep,can barely eat.. If you got this far, thankyou.....

Cara

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Sat, 08-02-2003 - 12:48pm
sweetie, you are definately not alone here! That's what we're all here for, support, encouragement and advice!! So, once you went off the BCP's you and your ex had unprotected sex? I wasn't sure from your post..but if you did then there's a chance you are PG, but you still have a while before AF is due. And if you are yes it will be hard, but at least your ex will want the baby and will be there to help you in that area. He may not want the relationship, but i think you are stronger then it sounds like you give yourself credit for. Hang in there hun, and keep us posted on how things are going!!
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Sat, 08-02-2003 - 1:02pm
Thankyou for responding.Yes we have been having unprotected sex..And i know for a fact we had sex 2 times when i was ovulating. I know i should have been careful and thats my fault. Too late now if i'm already pregnant..Now i have to wait 4 more days for the blood test..I wonder if they give the results back the same day or will that be suspenceful as well....

Cara

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Sat, 08-02-2003 - 1:13pm
hang in there...if you go in for blood work you will usually find out the next day, if they are really really fast and you get in early, SOMETIMES that day, or if they are running behind, sometimes the next day.