So sad...please HELP
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So sad...please HELP
| Fri, 09-05-2003 - 6:49am |
Well, it is three days to AF and yesterday I could not wait any longer to find out so I went out and bought the new First Reponse HPT which is supposed to detect the pregnancy hormone up to three days before your period (basically, it is very sensitive). Well, although I have a feeling I was...the result came out negative and now I am devastated. I just sat there looking at the test and cried...and cried...and cried. I still have three days of "official" waiting before I am "late" but after this negative test I feel so sad. Has anyone experienced this and then found out they were pregnant? I know I am probably test happy and should just have waited. But these past few days have felt like months or years even and I am going crazy!
HELP!
HELP!

I know exactly what you are feeling. I have been going through the same roller coaster for several months now. I finally went to the dr. and he gave me clomid. I just completed my second cycle. I am actually sitting here waiting for the phone call to tell me if I ovulated and if I am pg. I do not know which is worse a stick or a phone call. I cry all the time, mostly in the car when I am alone. I have become so pessimistic because it is such a hard fall when I get disappointed. I still keep hope but more issues may be there for us. Keep the faith, hang in there. It will happen for us.
Take care,
anxious101
This month I have tested already too... big fat --- but I am not normally due until tomorrow and I have a short lutal phase normally so I am going to test tomorrow but my 14 days is not up until Tuesday. So far for me Spot has not shown up...temps are still up etc. I am trying not to get my hopes up but I feel pg. (not that it means much.)
On the newer "senistive" Tests you still need to realize that 1. your body may have not yet produced enough hormons to be seen by the test and 2. if you look at the sheet it says normall just about 1/2 of all who will get a + test don't at the earliest you can use it.
Wendy
DD 11yrs
DS 7 yrs
ttc#3 using Donor Insemination
Best of luck - sending you baby dust!!!!
Shannin.
PS BIG FAT FLAKES of baby dust to everyone trying!!!!
In the same boat here. I'm supposed to see AF on the 7th also...and my pg symptoms are starting to go away. I was sure that I was pg on Tues, sore bbs, temp high, thought I had implantation pains on Sunday. So I tested, BFN of course. Then I tested on Wed (11dpo) and BFN again (what a suprise!) Now my bbs are not sore, and I had spotting on Wed and am pretty depressed. I have a little hope, but each day it dwindles away... Now I just wish AF would get here so I can start the next cycle, and a fresh obsession.
Good luck to us all
Kate
I have been having these annoying headaches (which i never do) and this morning I noticed blue veins on my breats (that were NOT there before) although there are bigger, they are not sore that much. I am incredibly swollen and temps is definately up but that could just be AF symptoms (although I never have them way before it comes). Have had no cramps but I am feeling somewhat tired and always hungry. I am crossing my fingers but this wait seems endless, especially since this is my first and i DO NOT know what to expect.
Thanks again for your replies and good luck to all of us trying! :)