Who's been through the same thing?

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Registered: 08-20-2003
Who's been through the same thing?
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Mon, 10-06-2003 - 1:11pm
I posted a message about a week ago and had few responses. Well this weekend I took a HPT and got a -. This is not the result I was waiting for. The wierd thing is that technically I am only 4 days late.....Assuming I had my "long" cycle this time.I have a cycle of 28-42 days....it changes on me all the time. The last time I had my period was Aug. 21. I don't know exaclty when I ovulate since my cycles are always diff. I don't use the O Kit at all so still I don't know. The thing is on Sept. 22 I started spotting brownish to a very dark red discharge, I thought I was getting my period early. Nothing to extreme....I used panty liners the whole time and still didn't stain too much on that. This lasted untl the 25th.I seriously thought I was going to get my period because I had cramps that came along with the spotting. Not until last week my breast started to hurt...more around my nipples if anything. But again my breast tend to get a little tender around the time I get my period. Also feeling fatigue may be a symptom, but try to look at it as if I'm just tired of working all day. The thing is that I am so excited and want to be preg so bad that I don't wanna feel the symptoms thinking I really am preg and not be at all. I've been trying now for some time and want it to just happen. Does anyone feel the same way. Sometimes I really feel like I'm preg at times, other times I don't at all. Also, I know morning sickness can be a sign, which I don't have at all, but I do feel dizzy and have headaches, but only at night. Can you have morning sickness at night?

I would appreciate any feed back or comments!

Thanks,

Desperately waiting for a positive result!

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-10-2003
Mon, 10-06-2003 - 1:55pm
Well morning sickness comes when it feels like it...in the morning at night in the afternoon or all day long. But in your case, I would guess you have a chance this time as much as any other...its hard to tell. If you don't get your BFP, then why don't you start monitoring CM, its easy and don't take no extra time or effort to do. That way you will have a good idea of when you ovulate. Being that your cycles are irregular and ovulate as various times, its going to be hard for you to happen to bd on the right random day. This would help you figure out each cycle just about when you should be trying.
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Registered: 08-20-2003
Mon, 10-06-2003 - 4:00pm
Thanks Emily for your reply. I am thinking about doing that...that is if I'm not pregnant this time around.

I forgot to ask another question that just came to mind. I hope that it doesn't sound to gross, but when I eat in the evenings I have this urge to burp, but whenever I do it has the taste of vomit, but nothing comes up. Also, I feel really gassy, but could be what I eat, right? I don't know if this is a sign or just indigestion. I'm new to this and would love to rely on my signs, but can't wait for the definite result.

Keep ya posted!