worry bout the positive sign

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worry bout the positive sign
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Tue, 10-07-2003 - 6:37pm
i was expecting my period around the 5th of this month but it hadnt come yet... my boyfriend and i had sex the day i was expecting it...he went deep but i dont think he went real deep...im still waiting on my period but at the same time my period can be irregular..some month it comes around the 5th some month it comes near the 28th or the end of the month....this is my first time...and i'm really worried bout being preganet..can some one post somt advice on whether i'm preganet or when i should take a pregancy test....

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Registered: 10-06-2003
Tue, 10-07-2003 - 6:43pm
also i'm 2 -3 days late or i should wait till the end of the month to see? im nervouse and dont think i can wait....im scared and nervous....i hadnt been crampin or no sign of period except a lil moody...but i notice that i been get alot of discharge lately...clear discharge....and the area between my legs tend to hurt every now and then is this normal? i'm also wondering wats the best pregancy test i can buy...any suggestion?
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Registered: 08-10-2003
Tue, 10-07-2003 - 6:57pm
Well, if your very first time was on the 5th when your period was due, the chances of pregnancy are low. But since you said your period sometimes don't come till the end of the month it can be hard to guess on this. Normaly, you will be more likely to concieve about 2 weeks before your period is due. But being that your having a lot of clear discharge you may be fertile right now. Why don't you check the discharge, and see if its kind of stretchy. If you can stretch it between your fingers then right now is the time you are most likely to get pregnant. You get this kind of discharge (also called cervical mucos or CM ) so that the sperm will survive inside you instead of quickly dieing off. Sperm can survive in this kind of mucos for several days. In the future I would reccomend that you use condoms and consider getting on birth control before you do end up pregnant.
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Wed, 10-08-2003 - 8:26pm
thanxs for ur posting .....my last period was round the 5th of sept....and i still hadnt received my period this month....the discharge only lasted two days bout ...theres still some now but very little...we did use a condom but it broke and i didnt realize it broke till we stop...he didnt say nothin...we had sex on the 5 of oct..the day i was expecting my period..when do u think is the best time to take a test...and i'm kinda sorry..but when u said i;m fertile wat did u mean? thanxs again for respondin i really appreciated it alot....
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Thu, 10-09-2003 - 7:37am
i dunno if u wont consdier this to be the first time cuz welllbefore wen we did it he did enter me her just basically grind me then he would digital me ...but this time he went inside he pull out after a minute or two ......but yea plz help me out here im nervous i can wait till my next period but durin that time imma go nervous and nervous..i noticed i been really tired lately....a lil moody...but i dunno like i had said ...my period can be irregular...somtimes round the 5th sometimes near the end sometiems i skip a month....
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Thu, 10-09-2003 - 9:08am
What she meant about you being fertile, You count 14 days after the first day of your period, To Ovulat. When you are fertile, you have a thin clear discharge. You know you are fertile, because this is the only time you will have that kind of discharge.

Don't stress, You can cause your period to stop, Or do werid things by worrying! Relax!

There isn't anything you can do anyway, I went through what you are going through.

We are TTC#2!~ I hope this helps!

Good Luck! P.S Relax! Angela

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Registered: 08-10-2003
Thu, 10-09-2003 - 11:16am
Well, if you want to help ease your fears, you can always test. If you believe your period should have been here on the 5th this time. You can take a test when you have missed your period. It won't hurt none to take one, and I know it will help you feel better. So good luck with this.
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Thu, 10-09-2003 - 5:20pm
thanxs u guys for keepin me posted thru this stage of my life...thanxs i really appreciate....i dunno im probably gonna wait till somtime after the end of the month...but i dunno i guess i might take a test sometime next week....any suggestion on which one the use that will give most accurate result? and again i really appreciate u guys keping me posted its really help full and reassuiring thanxs again
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Registered: 09-10-2003
Thu, 10-09-2003 - 6:00pm
Well the best ones that give the most accurate ones are early ones. The one I here about the most is First Response Early (FRE) but its quite expensive. There are a few that I know are cheaper one is Answer Early, and also CVS Early (from CVS pharmacy) I know Answer is good, I never used the CVS but I think its the same price as the Answer one. I don't know f your like me, but I hate spending a fortune on these, so I go for the cheaper ones, they all work pretty much the same.
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Registered: 10-05-2003
Thu, 10-09-2003 - 6:20pm
i have a questin....so if AF isn't due for another 6 days...can i take one of the early HPT and possibly get a positive...i'm about to go to the store now because i'm soooo anxious....what do you think....????????
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Registered: 04-05-2003
Thu, 10-09-2003 - 6:46pm
The early tests (like FRE) can test accurately up to 3 days before your expected period. You might be able to get an accurate result now, but the longer you wait, the more accurate the result. ***Hugs***

Try to relax!

Val

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