help me plz i think im pregnant but how
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| Tue, 04-24-2007 - 8:47pm |
I went to the hospital one morning cuz i got really bad adominal paint around my gallblader for 4 weeks an i have been feeling most of the symptoms of being pregnant like,sourness around chest,gaging, headecks,feeling nautions everytime i look at food. An so i got test taken of my stomach an wat not an the test says im 73% pregnant. But im just thinking how can that be im still a virgin i never did anything of that such yet. My boyfriend an i were planning on haveing consential sex this comeing week. But in the back of my mind i I'm always saying how could this be how could it be. But i feel like im carrying a baby but im only 14 years old. Please help me figure this out Please...
I've always joked around to my friends that im pregnant so plz becareful of wat u wish for
Edited 4/24/2007 8:48 pm ET by chrstnlvs2

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Hi, I'm a little confused when you say that you took a stomach test that showed a probability of 73% pregnant. Did you actually take a pregnancy test? Also, some of the symptoms you are describing could be due to another ailment. Soreness around the chest does not sound like a pg symptom to me. Sore nipples or bb's yes, but what do you mean by (around the chest?) Perhaps you have a bronchol infection or something else. You said that you are still a virgin, but if your bf ejaculated on or near your vagina sperm could swim up there so be careful. Also, if and when you decide to have sex with your bf you should always use a condom, not for protection of pregnancy alone, but for protection against std's. Is it possible for you to go to a clinic and get a pg test? Do you have an adult that you trust and could confide in? Also, are you late for you af yet?
Sorry hun! I just don't know what else to tell you at this time. Please let me know.
Jackie
sounds to me like you did an internet quiz to see if your pregnant... since you CANT be 73% pregnant... what that meant was, given the symptoms you have, there is a 73% chance that you are pregnant.. but honestly. the signs of pregnancy can be linked to MOST things... being fatigued, sick, getting headaches and soreness is also a sign of lymphoma... you know, cancer... as well as the flue. and mono, and depression and being bogged
Hello,
If you really are a virgin and your boyfriend didnt ejaculate near your vagina, you are not pregnant. Plain and simple. There is no such thing as being 73% pregnant. Either you are or your not.
Take a Home Pregnancy Test or talk to your doctor.
You are ONLY 14 years old...a little girl...
TTC to conceive #1 officially since 2001. Dh had Varicocele surgery 2005 and has low sperm count. Dh tried Clomid..it didnt really help, HSG in 1999 and 2005, Charting since Jan 2006, <
yea... at 14 i thought i was going to be a virgin on my wedding day which would have been AFTER medical school.... it wasnt on my mind at all and when i lost it at age 16, it just made my life 100X more complicated, i was always afraid i got pregnant, worried over my rep. made my "relationship" more complicated wasnt worth it at all.
Hello,
Uh Oh....I think you talked me out of it. Just kidding. What you said is absolutely correct. I do not have children myself but I have plenty of friends that do. Trying to make plans with them is very difficult. I was 16 when I first had sex. I ended up dating the guy for 2 years. I look back and KNOW I never really loved him. I have had many boyfriends until I met my husband. I look back at most of them with disgust ;)
Chrstnlvs2 , Please think twice before having sex! It is NOT worth the stress. This will not be the only guy you will ever meet or date. Save yourself until you are more grown up. I am not saying do not have sex until your are married. I think that is unrealistic. Good Luck.
~Lisa
TTC to conceive #1 officially since 2001. Dh had Varicocele surgery 2005 and has low sperm count. Dh tried Clomid..it didnt really help, HSG in 1999 and 2005, Charting since Jan 2006, <
hey, im being honest! i know of a lot of girls who are young and think a baby is all sweetness and fun and that the second it gets hard, hand it off to grandma, or if they wanna go to the movies with their friends, back to grandma.... a lot of them dont think about what its like to walk up and down the halls all night with a screaming teething baby, night after night...
If I may interject with my piece :)
I don't sugar coat things so if I come across as brash, sorry in advance.
Why on God's green Earth are you planning to have sex at 14?! I can tell you from experience that it won't be worth it in the long run. It'll make that relationship more complicated, if you break up your reputation could be on the line, you'll always wonder am I pregnant. It's just not worth it.
I got pregnant with my first child at 16, get this, the same night I lost my virginity. Bet you never thought about that huh? Get this point too, we used a condom, my sleeze of bf at the time purposefully had put a hole in it. You know what he told me later? He did it on purpose because he wanted to make sure I hung around. So stop and think about that as well, your bf may not be quite as great as you think. Oh, and you wanna know where that bf is now? WHO THE HECK KNOWS!! The last time he saw his daughter was when she was 4months old, for 10 minutes... she's almost 5 now.
So yeah, I got pregnant at 16, I had great grades in school, played varsity sports, and was looking into a top school on scholarships. All of that came to a screeching halt. I barely graduated high school ( I had to work my butt off, balancing homework with a job and a baby). No more sports, no more scholarships. Yes, I managed to go to college, but that school isn't even recognized, so I got screwed.
Yeah I'll admit, a lot of times when I wanted to continue living my life I let grandma take over. But I regret that now. I missed everything with my oldest, sitting up by herself, crawling, standing, first laugh, first bath, first tooth. Even with all of that missing, my parents still made me deal with all the late night ordeals. I can't tell you how many days I went to school without sleep struggling to stay awake.
After I graduated high school and finished with college, I got pregnant again, at 19. Still a single mom and totally on my own this time. I worked my tail off everyday, for 10hr+ days, just to get things to meet. Atleast my girls never went hungry, but I sure as hell did. I'm not going to go into another lecture about that experience.
But, now, I'm married have been for a year. We're expecting our son in a month and a half. I finally feel good about myself. My girls have a father, I'm finally with a guy who doesn't date me just because he thinks he can get some ( I may have 2 babies out of wedlock but I am NOT easy...I've been known to bloody noses and hurt some balls for getting too fresh). My husband truly loves my daughters and me. And I'll tell you what, that is something that is extremely hard to come by as a single young mother.
I just plead with you and anyone else who is young and considering having sex. It's just not worth it. You never know what might happen, you can be the most careful person in the world about it and you'll still end up with something unforseen.
A baby/child is not all gumdrops and kittens. It's extremely hard work, with little appreciation. You'd have to grow up very fast, and believe you me, I desperately miss being able to live out my teenage years and college years.
Just think about it long and hard, 14 is waaaay too young
Hey girls hold on a minute...Not all young love relationships end. Me and dh have been together for 6 years and got together when I was almost 16, And were still going strong as ever. (sorry I just had to throw that in there I don't think its fair for people to just assume it never works.)
altho after I thought about it... if your sure its not going to end why rush to have sex? It will be all the more special If you wait.
Hold your horses there girls. I was 14 when I first had sex and it was with my BF which is now my DH we have been together for 10 years and of those 10 years we have been married 3 years so you can't go off and tell this girl that every young relationship doesn't works because yours did not. We had safe sex I was on Birth control and he used a condom every time we had sex, until we decided to get pregnant which wasn't until after we got married and now we have a health 19 month old son and TTCing for #2.
As for you chrstnlvs2 if you did not have sex with your BF and he did not ejaculate down there then you are not Pregnant and if you are seriously wanting to go through with having sex then you better have birth control and not just a condom I'm talking about pills, the patch, the shot just something other than a condom but if you and your boyfriend are serious about each other then wait until you are older especially if you can't be responsible.
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