not sure how to handle this.....

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Registered: 01-24-2007
not sure how to handle this.....
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Mon, 04-30-2007 - 1:07am

okay.... my Dh and i both decided we were done with having children.. we have a 2.5 year old son and a 6 month old daughter, we are still young and like the idea of being young still when they grow up... (or... youngish i should say... im 25 and hes 28) i even this last week gave ALL my maternity and "newborn" baby things to friends. who are having a baby in sept.. to sort of

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Registered: 11-06-2006
Mon, 04-30-2007 - 4:09am

Hello,


It is hard to know if your are pregnant or not with the symptoms you are describing. How about taking public transportation during the day when DH is at work? You can also make an appointment with your doctor and tell your dh its a "check up" this way you do not have to let him know anything until you know for sure. Also maybe bring up a vascectomy to him and see what he says especially since you are

TTC to conceive #1 officially since 2001. Dh had Varicocele surgery 2005 and has low sperm count. Dh tried Clomid..it didnt really help, HSG in 1999 and 2005, Charting since Jan 2006, <

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Registered: 07-28-2006
Mon, 04-30-2007 - 9:55am

Hi
i had my IUD taken out by my Gyno...cos of really bad stabbing pains in my side..like labour pains..there were taking my breath away..i thot i had a tubal pregnancy at one point...

i went to my appointment and he whipped it out there and then...i have never had the pain since...
hope this helps :)

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Registered: 01-24-2007
Mon, 04-30-2007 - 9:59am

yea i cant go on BC likethe pill, the hormones do wierd nasty things to me that i never want to go through again, hair loss rapid weight gain, acne from heck... and we arent into condoms which is why the IUd sounds perfect for us... i keep checking the strings off my IUd and it feels like its in right. and the pains are liek stabbing right now... they just mildly uncomfortable... (but thats how it started with my son... ended with 2 trips to the ER because it happened in public and someone saw and called 911 it was so bad)


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Registered: 07-28-2006
Mon, 04-30-2007 - 11:00am

good luck whatever happens.

i cant use any BC either...that was why the iud seemed good at the time.

i am British and sometimes forget how things work for you guys so i apologise if i was a little insensitive..because i just waited 3 months and my consultant sorted my problem out....over here people complain about the NHS...it has its faults for sure but when you are in pain you get help nothing to do with insurance or no insurance.

so i am so sorry for you and hope you can get help soon..hugs ( )