Is it possible?

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Registered: 11-12-2003
Is it possible?
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Fri, 06-13-2008 - 9:40pm
My last menstrual was on may 19th. My husband and I have only had sex one night this cycle and it was on may 24th. We did have sex 2 times that night, the first time was with a condom on and the second time though we did not have one, but he pulled out (i know, very unreliable and unsafe!). My cycles are usually 28-29 days long.

Well on monday, i began to bleed and it scared my extremely bad. Like i said my cycles are usually 28-29 days long. And I ready that implantation bleeding usually occurs a week before your menstrual should start. But the bleeding got heavier like a menstrual and it is still here, but basically gone like my regular period would. And it was heavy like a normal period would be. And I also read that implantation bleeding should occur about a week after conception, and it had been a little over 2 weeks since we had sex. But I torture myself and I analyze every little thing about my "period" and sometimes i would think that, while it was heavy like my period that it looked different. But then other times i didn't think that it did.

Do you think that I could be pregnant? We already have a 10 month old little girl and while I want more children, and we are doing better for ourselves, I know that we are not ready for a second child. And that's what makes it really bad, because I would have to have an abortion. And I don't want to, but it wouldn't be fair to that child or to our daughter that we already have, because we were barely ready for her, but we are ok, but I know that we are not ready for another one yet. And I'm starting to fear that this is going to ruin my marriage. I'm so afraid that I'm going to get pregnant that I don't want to have sex with my husband, I'm scared. So we have sex maybe once a month. Sometimes none. He says that it is ok but I know its not. I know that he feels like its him that I don't want to be with but its not. Even when we don't have sex, I'm scared that I got pregnant the month before and just had my period anyway.

I'm sorry that I am rambling but I've just got so much going through my mind right now. It's all I think about all day and I feel like I can't talk to anybody about it.

Thanks for listening....

Angela
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Registered: 05-28-2008
Fri, 06-13-2008 - 10:17pm
I dont think u r pregnant bc I thought I was pregnant from a situation that was exactly the same and thought my bleeding was implantation but found out it wasn't. Just be really careful from now on cuz I think if u had an abortion u would regret it. I haven't personally done it but have read a lot about woman who regret it so much and r in so much pain. People would rationalize their reasons then say how stupid they were. I got pregnant the month after the pregnancy scare I just told u about so if u really think u aren't ready get bc or something I am keeping this baby despite all the reasons why I shouldn't. I believe my life will find its fate. Good luck. Take a pregnancy test asap. And kit
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Registered: 03-18-2008
Sat, 06-14-2008 - 7:22am
I think it highly unlikely, if you started your last period

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