Ladies I apologize for**m

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Ladies I apologize for**m
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Wed, 05-28-2003 - 12:17am
for being such a wimp, its just been a really long

week and going to get longer. I will do anything

in the world for her no matter how sick she is, but

she has to meet us half way. I feel really bad for

her because it looks like she has bone cancer in her

pelvis, they are going to do the byopsy next week.

If she does not meet us and the Dr's half way then

she has lost the battle. Good night ladies, your all

such good people. Angles Flying Low tonight. Betty hugs.
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Wed, 05-28-2003 - 8:11am
No need to apologize, Betty. I know what you're going through.

Many hugs, Darby


 



 
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Wed, 05-28-2003 - 9:36am
You are not being a wimp. This is a difficult time that you're going through. It's not easy dealing with our parents. Sending angels to help you through all of this.... kaci

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Wed, 05-28-2003 - 10:42am
Betty, please ask your MIL's doctor about Hospice. I know I said it before quite some time ago & I don't want you to think I'm nagging, but if a care home is out of the question & she'll continue to be in your home you must do something to get support & relief for you & DH...plus what they can do for your MIL is amazing. (You can always tell them you don't want them to come again if you aren't satisfied with the services they provide!) Telling us what to expect when the death comes was so helpful & calming. I pray for you, DH & MIL. Cal
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Wed, 05-28-2003 - 2:26pm
A wimp you are NOT!! This board is a good place for you to blow off steam.We all feel for you and understand.When things get us down it's nice to have a place to vent.Please don't feel you shouldn't share this with us.I only hope we help by being here.martha
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Wed, 05-28-2003 - 3:05pm
Cal is correct about the Hospice service! Please check this out as soon as you can; the people who helped with DBIL (Eldersis' husband) were wonderful. They knew what to expect and lead us through; they brought things that he needed even before he needed them. This is paid for by Social Security and didn't cost one red dime. Make it easier on yourselves and inquire about this asap. {{{{Hugs}}}} lottie77

lottie77~~~

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Wed, 05-28-2003 - 4:01pm
Oh Betty hon..you are not a wimp..this has been such a tough year on you..I think you are very strong..I agree about the hospice..they are a great help..Hugs Judi
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Thu, 05-29-2003 - 9:57am
Betty, my prayers are with all of you. This is not an easy time for any of you, and hoping that you all hang together and get through it one day at a time. Hugs. Bea
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