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Tue, 05-13-2008 - 8:39pm
Hello, is there anyone on this board that is 60+ without grandchildren? 

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Registered: 10-11-2004
In reply to: sdivas
Wed, 05-14-2008 - 1:07pm
Hi sadly to say that I don't have any grandkids, was not meant to be. So I just do my do without and so do the kids. Welcome to the board, I am Betty have been on here a while and love the board, they make you feel very welcome. Sit down and stay a spell.

Betty L. Keep and Angel on your Shoulder & a prayer in your heart.

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Registered: 01-10-2006
In reply to: sdivas
Wed, 05-14-2008 - 6:04pm
Hi Betty, thanks for your reply.
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Registered: 03-25-2007
In reply to: sdivas
Thu, 05-15-2008 - 2:57am

Hi:


Welcome to the board.

Always, Lou
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Registered: 10-11-2004
In reply to: sdivas
Thu, 05-15-2008 - 10:45am

Sandi


I have never thought about it one way or another, if the ladies have GKids. I just happen to be one that does not, but I have always been able to join in and enjoy everyone of their stories about the little ones, or the big ones. I guess because I had a lot of nieces and nephews growing up. Join us this board is a very important part of all our lives, they are here for you no matter the reason, or just to be silly at our age. I am 68 don't feel it and play golf with the dh, and go to the gym, we are going to have to find another gym Its gotten way to expensive, and I enjoy the casinos. Give us a real try and you will really enjoy being here with us. Have a great day,

Betty L. Keep and Angel on your Shoulder & a prayer in your heart.

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Registered: 01-10-2006
In reply to: sdivas
Thu, 05-15-2008 - 5:59pm
Thanks ladies for your welcome.
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Registered: 10-11-2004
In reply to: sdivas
Thu, 05-15-2008 - 7:00pm

Sandi


It will take time, and sometimes you do lose friends in the process I feel like if you lost them while you were grieving then you didn't

Betty L. Keep and Angel on your Shoulder & a prayer in your heart.

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Registered: 03-25-2003
In reply to: sdivas
Sun, 05-18-2008 - 9:06pm

I have no children, therefore, no grands etc.

lottie77~~~

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: sdivas
Mon, 05-19-2008 - 10:53am

Welcome to the group. I'm 68 and newly retired, have plenty of kids and grandkids, but they don't occupy my every thought. My DH is a sociologist by training and gave me insight into the friends issue years ago. It's healthier in the long run to have friends for different stages of life than to keep giving life support to a relationship that no longer meets each other's needs. One theory is that people come together with a common interest - hobby, politics, specific volunteer activities, etc. Starting with that base, you may find that you really click with a person in the group. But don't join something just to make friends - you need to share a common passion, especially in later life. We just don't have the time left to wait for the spark to occur. On the other hand, if you like people, pick an activity that includes them - group singing vs. piano lessons, travel tours vs. travel lectures, reading club vs. reading alone at home. You get the picture. The women here are my cyber-friends because we share many of the same issues of our age. Drop by any time and tell us what's on your mind. We're not shy about giving opinions or sharing life experiences.

As for turning 60, I remember telling someone that I did most everything I did at 20 - BUT A LOT SLOWER - LOL. Your body and mind need to heal. Don't dwell on what you wish you had or no longer have - that 's just negative energy that will take you down.

Jacquie - in mid-Illinois where Spring is in full bloom

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Registered: 03-25-2003
In reply to: sdivas
Mon, 05-19-2008 - 11:05am
Hi Sandi and welcome to the board.

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Registered: 03-25-2003
In reply to: sdivas
Mon, 05-19-2008 - 12:53pm
This is a great board. Yes I have grandkids, but where I live we're so busy that they are not the whole of life. I'm 78 and feeling great. Going to Alaska this week. I am in FL where I can always get out and about. I'm in a retirement community and can keep as busy as I want, or stay as private as I wish. This place is 'family'.I'm happy you are joining us-- martha

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