Pad bulges

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Registered: 02-02-2004
Pad bulges
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Tue, 10-25-2005 - 9:57pm
Hey folks. Was wondering if I could get a female perspective. I work at a school and have a female co-worker who yesterday had an obvious pad bulge from her back pocket. In fact, she was keeping her pad in her back pocket, and the pink was showing on top very badly. I was torn between telling her and her being embarrassed, or not telling her and feeling even more embarssed when she'd realize it. Is it better to tell her or not?
This is not the first time, either. A few months ago she had a pretty good sized stain on her butt, but again I didn't say anything. I don't know if I did right or not. Are other people like me afraid to say anything, and is this doing the person more harm than good? Maybe she has a lot of trouble at "that time."

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Registered: 02-02-2004
In reply to: brad2542
Sun, 12-11-2005 - 4:33pm
Thanks for your response. My account is still active, although I was away a while. Another incident happened later in Nov. when she had an "accident." I told her about the bulge and she was embarrased but glad I told her. She started early that day, and I gave her an extra sweater. She's very open with me, and tells me eveything about her period and life in general.
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Registered: 03-19-2003
In reply to: brad2542
Sun, 12-11-2005 - 6:28pm
Glad

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Registered: 03-19-2003
In reply to: brad2542
Mon, 12-12-2005 - 10:58am

I too am very happy that all went well when you told her and very glad you are still with us here in iVillage.


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Registered: 02-02-2004
In reply to: brad2542
Mon, 12-12-2005 - 9:47pm
Thanks, CL. I've always had a fascination with periods. I always seem to find myself in those situations, so I'm sure I'll be asking more questions to come.

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