WWN - March 16: We Need to Talk (Really)

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WWN - March 16: We Need to Talk (Really)
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Tue, 03-16-2010 - 4:03pm
Small talk has its place as a social lubricant, but more meaningful conversations are what really make people happy, new research suggests. The study is just one item reported in the March 16 Your Total Health Women's Wellness Newsletter.



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Do you find that engaging in substantive conversation is important to your well-being? What effect do you believe it has on your relationships? Do you and your spouse or partner have enough meaningful conversations?




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Tue, 03-16-2010 - 11:11pm

Do you find that engaging in substantive conversation is important to your well-being? === I do

What effect do you believe it has on your relationships? === It is a major aspect of our regular girls' night out

Do you and your spouse or partner have enough meaningful conversations? === when he's driving and I'm navigating, yes. And SOMETIMES at other times. But it's not a daily thing... Oddly enough, we email each other more than we talk! LOL



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Wed, 03-17-2010 - 12:18am

Do you find that engaging in substantive conversation is important to your well-being? What effect do you believe it has on your relationships?

Yes. These conversations allow one to connect to others in a deeper way by getting to know them beyond superficialities and allowing them some insight into who we are, what makes us tick.



Do you and your spouse or partner have enough meaningful conversations?

No spouse or SO right now, but yes we had them. I have them with my friends.


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Wed, 03-17-2010 - 3:38pm
I absolutely agree about having meaningful conversations while driving! It was one of my favorite tricks when I was ferrying teenagers around -- for some reason, they'll open up more in the car than anywhere else. Maybe something that would feel like a "heavy" conversation elsewhere doesn't seem so in the car. Or maybe it's because they're trapped with you anyway, so they might as well talk to you, lol.


My husband and I communicate a great deal via text messages. His job entails a lot of meetings, so phone calls aren't always an option but he can usually answer a quick text message. We don't have substantive conversation on a daily basis either. I think occasionally is often enough; it's couples who *never* have meaningful conversation that might run into trouble.



Siggy

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Wed, 03-17-2010 - 3:44pm
"These conversations allow one to connect to others in a deeper way by getting to know them beyond superficialities and allowing them some insight into who we are, what makes us tick."


Yes, I agree completely. Do you think this can happen with online relationships, or only with those we know in person?



Siggy

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Wed, 03-17-2010 - 9:01pm

Deep conversations are deep conversations, whether it's done online, through snail mail, fax, phone conversations or face-to-face.

How much one opens up to another person is not dependent on the physical proximity, but on affinity.















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Thu, 03-18-2010 - 2:14pm
"How much one opens up to another person is not dependent on the physical proximity, but on affinity."



I both appreciate and share your viewpoint!




Siggy

Community Leader of Women's Health



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Thu, 03-18-2010 - 4:46pm

~hugs~


I was thinking about this recently.


Sometimes I have a friend I wish would talk more.


On the other hand they are a really good listener.


I was upset today and without even saying anything they gave me a hug.


They knew without any words being exchanged.


<3

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Mon, 03-22-2010 - 3:00pm
While it is nice to have an empathetic friend who listens and can communicate without words, I find that I need to reciprocate in order to form a strong bond. Sometimes I need to be the sounding board, the trusted friend. Do you feel that way as well?



Siggy

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Mon, 03-22-2010 - 3:09pm

~hugs~


Yes I do!


<3

Nightangel
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Mon, 03-22-2010 - 3:42pm
Nice to see you here!



Siggy

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