The 'friend' update...

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Registered: 03-24-2004
The 'friend' update...
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Fri, 03-26-2004 - 1:13pm
So I decided to write her a 'kind' email and tell her we've gone down our separate paths and I don't think the friendship is going anywhere. surprisingly she agreed and basically told me 'good luck in the future' type of note! i couldn't believe it! about the husband, I have no idea what's going to come of that. I guess I just don't want any more contact with them, and if I call the police about it i might get wrapped up back into their little weird world. who knows. funniest thing about it. she claims to be so 'spiritual' and godlike, etc. and she says that going and sleeping around with all these men is part of her spiritual healing/growth! yuck! is that weird or what? I guess she's probably always been this weird, but i just realized it, cuz she started opening up to me. ugh. ok. that's it now. at least she 'let me go' easily. thanks for all your support!
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Registered: 04-25-2003
Fri, 03-26-2004 - 2:50pm
Thank you for the update! I am glad to hear that she has let things go easily! I know it can be hard to break off a friendship but sometimes it is for the best! Good luck! I hope you are feeling somewhat better with this, as much as you can!

~Debra

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Registered: 09-15-2003
Fri, 03-26-2004 - 3:14pm
Thanks for the update.

I think we can all say "GROSS!" Sleeping around doesn't bring any spiritual enlightenment that I can think of, unless enlightenment comes in the form of STD's.

:)

Melissa

Meldi
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Registered: 09-28-2003
Sat, 03-27-2004 - 6:49pm
I'm proud of you!

Brittany

   

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Registered: 01-06-2004
Sun, 03-28-2004 - 8:23am

Glad things were easy for you to let her know how you feel.
It's not easy to tell someone something like that without hurting someone in the process, but I think it needed to be done
I sure do hope that she finds her way back to a healthy way of living, for her sake and the kids if she has some.

Mel


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