Can't We All Just Get Along!

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Registered: 05-03-2003
Can't We All Just Get Along!
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Sat, 08-07-2004 - 11:17pm
WOW! I just was reading some posts (The SAHM rant against hubby) and things got a little heated! It was disturbing to me because I like that this board is a place for all of us to vent and unwind, but also a place for us to take care of each other.

I think that usually this is a very nice place, and that is why I didn't like the messages. We should all be able to say what we please because that is what venting is all about and I hate to think that we would discourage anyone from posting.

I guess what I am trying to say is that I want to see everyone continue to post and I want us to be happy and supportive and see when others are trying to help us.

Please Ladies! Lets be happy when we can and upset with our husbands here all that we want, but stay happy with each other on the board. That would make me happy;-)

~Gen

PS: To those who posted on that post: this is not meant to offend, just an observation and I think that you are all wonderful! ~Gen

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Mon, 08-09-2004 - 9:43am

Hi!


I'm thinking maybe my post was misread, I was trying to show concern and focus on looking for the good in situations, which is what I do in life. People usually come to me to ask me how to turn a situation around and make it work for them. I'm a happy person. I do get sad, I do get angry, I get frustrated, but I am one who would much rather just smile and find out how to move a situatin forward.

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Registered: 01-06-2004
Mon, 08-09-2004 - 3:43pm
Debbie,

I just want you to know, that this is a board to be able to post how you feel, how your day has gone, your life as a SAHM.
Do not feel you cannot do this anymore because a post was taken the wrong way by a few people.
HUGS and good for you for being such a great mom.


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Registered: 05-03-2003
Tue, 08-10-2004 - 5:42am
Debbie,

Hello there! I want you to know that I think that you were trying to do a good thing...I thought that you were right, and I had concern in the same way. I want you to keep posting what is on your mind and it conerns me that you wouldn't because you were trying to help--thank you.

I also appreciate that you find the good in things...I do too! The eternal optimists have to stick together:)

Well, I hope to continue to read your posts and thank you for your response.

Take care,

~Gen