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| Fri, 02-09-2007 - 1:59pm |
Ok, so here's what's going on, and I'm not sure how to approach this:
My husband works with alot of people that we socialize w/, and many of them are mutual friends of our family as well. There is one girl that he works w/ whom I got to know through visiting my husband at work, we've gone out w/ her & her husband a few times. She's nice, we get along, last week my hub came home from work and was upset about something that happened w/ this girl. My husband does new hire oreintation at his job and there's a new intern from a local college, and she got assigned to the same department as my husband (he works on an air force base in govt security, a civilan job) anyway, so this intern has to be trained by him. My hub is 28, this girl is 20, so anyway, he's had to spend alot of time w/ her, training her and I guess lately she's been having lunch break w/ him & this girl that's a friend of ours. Well, apparently our friend has been making comments to my hub about how he spends so much time working w/ this intern and that she is very young and he's going to give her the wrong idea. He has no choice but to work w/ her, he has to train her! I guess he told her off and said give me a break, and she told him "What if I tell your wife what your doing?" My husband said, "Go ahead tell her, I'm not doing anything wrong, I'm doing my job." and our friend I guess teases him at work all day that he's got a intern crush, and she's his little girlfriend...she also pulled this intern aside and told her that my hub has a wife and family and new baby on the way, to give the intern the idea that she was being inappropriate...I'm so pissed b/c I know my hub would never do anything to hurt us or our relationship, and the I'm tired of sitting on this and keeping my mouth shut. Our friend says to my hub all the time "Gee, what if your wife knew what you were doing..." Stuff like that, and now, we are all supposed to go out next week and I'm going to find it hard to bite my tongue and not say anything to her about the trouble she is trying to start w/ me & my hub, my question is, what do I say to her and how do I handle this? Why is she trying to start trouble?


arie
Edited 2/9/2007 6:22 pm ET by dansfoxywife