Update On Sister Issue

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Registered: 07-21-2003
Update On Sister Issue
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Wed, 05-02-2007 - 10:26am

First let me say thank you to all of you that responded on what to do with my Sister. I knew in the back of my mind that I should tell her about what I found but wanted to get others opinions that were not involved. Friday I sent her all the information that I had and things went exactly as I had expected them too. Her DH back talked his way out of everything saying it was just an email scam and that his work IT deptartment is looking into who sent the emails. She is going to believe what she wants and there is not much I can do about it. They are of course trying to blame it all on me and DH saying that we made up a phony email address and sent it all. I love my sister very much and I feel that I have done what I can by passing along the information but unfortunally as of right now we are not talking. I can not have the relationship I would like with her when all she does is talk behind my back and say this awful things about me and the decisions I have made about my life. It hurts enough when a friend or someone you do not know very well talks about you but when it is your own family it is even worse. I am hoping with time things will blow over but right now I would rather just not see her.

Julie

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Registered: 10-30-2005
Wed, 05-02-2007 - 10:34am

You did what you should have done and what I would have done.

 

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Registered: 07-06-2006
Wed, 05-02-2007 - 10:38am
I'm sorry you and your sister are on bad terms.

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Registered: 01-18-2007
Wed, 05-02-2007 - 12:08pm

You did the right thing I think, you care about your sister obviously, and you wanted to let her know what was going on before she took things to the next level.

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Registered: 04-17-2007
Wed, 05-02-2007 - 12:27pm

Julie-

I'm so sorry to hear that your situation turned out this way. You did what was right and hopefully she with take off the blinders and realize her mistake. (((HUGS)))

Tara

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Registered: 10-29-2003
Wed, 05-02-2007 - 12:40pm

Julie,


I'm sorry your sister is blaming you, and I hope she realizes you love her and were not trying to cause trouble.


I also think you did the right thing.


Hugs,


Sharon

 

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