Yawn! Stretch! Yawn! Hi Ladies!
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Yawn! Stretch! Yawn! Hi Ladies!
| Thu, 05-22-2003 - 7:58am |
Morning All! I just cant get woke up this morning. It's still dark and gloomy and pretty foggy out there. Im glad I dont have to get out too early this morning.
Still having trouble with DH and so help me, if I dont find out what is hisproblem, Im going to haveto do what I usually do to straighten him out. I have a "Jackie" fit. I sit him down, tell him I've had enough and either get it together or else. He went off again last night, this time about my cooking. Made a chicken pot pie and just because I had not quite cooked chicken long enough months ago, he says " Hope its done this time."
Then he goes off about whats on TV. Sheez!!!! Well, "Jackie" fits really take it out onme but he's going to get it with both barrels tonight. Then he'll tell me what the real problem is and we can get on with life.
Hope you all have a nice day and I will try to do the same.
Jackie

Sorry you are still having perplexing times with DH. Do try to have a nice day.
Hugs...Pab
Pab
Seriously, I do hope you can get that guy straigtened out! Will keep you in my prayers.
Have a good day and weekend.
Hugs, Shari
I'm sure this will all blow over, it always does. But it's sure hard to remember why I love that guy at times like these. LOL
Thanks for the prayers!
Jackie
So, when he came home and I was calm he would tell me what he was doing and he would give me the check(he got extra for going out at night) I would feel like and A and after a few years I learned not to fly off the handle......lol.....
Then when we moved out here(about 100 miles from where we grew up) he would rarely leave the house and that bugged me too......then he became a volunteer fireman/emt that gave him something to do....
Damn there is just no pleasing me is there?
Just don't discount that there may be something wrong. I think when men probably more than women get older limitations really get them down....that is when you need a doctor...
Janet
Have a nice day !.
It just hurts me when he does this and it seems like the older we get, the meaner his outbursts get. He is a VERY negative person,pessimistic, and a real bigot(very predjudiced). It didn't bother me for years but the older I get, the harder it bothers me. I know he loves me and I am trying to remember that.
Maybe I'll just beathim to death and hide the body! LOL!!!!!!!!! Not really.
Thanks,dear friend! Jackie
Hugs,
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In his own mind he may be already imagining how "neglected" he's going to be once this business takes off. I know what you mean about having to throw a "fit", it does get very frustrating when they behave like "rotten little kids".
As I said I adapt that "I'll just ignore him" policy but I also have a limit to my patience and when I've reached that limit and it takes quite a bit for me to get there, I'll blow and let him have it. I will try at some point ask him what his problem is but of course if they are suffering from "potential neglect" they are not about to admit it but from years of living together I can usually pick up signs.
With my dear DH I know that lately his negativity lately has to do with business and I understand but its been going on for almost 6 weeks on and off...yesterday when I was getting ready for work, he said kidding..."Yankee Candle called and said you didn't have to come in today, so you can keep me company"..and I said..Yeah right, no chance, I need a day away from all this fun...he knows me well enough to take the hint. Once he told me that he knows when he has gone to far because I get this look in my eye and while you're right "fits" can be emotionally drainning, sometimes its all you can do.
Good luck with the situation..let us know how it all works out.
Val