Very unhappy

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Very unhappy
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Sat, 07-10-2010 - 1:35pm

Now while R loves the cats she constantly complains about them.  They keep her awake, they have hair everywhere, they make noise with their toys, scratch, etc.  She even wipes every dish and pan before use to make sure there is no hair around.


I'm the one that takes the cats to the vet, buys cat food and litter, and clean the boxes.


DS is unhappy that I'm spraying his cats with water so they leave mine alone. Plus, the male is always biting the female and she screams.


What does DS do yesterday but bring home a female kitten. :(  He needs his head examined.


So even with the kitten in their room, Sophie won't come out.  AFter a year she still has not accepted the other cats.  They told me she didn't like other cats which was no problem when it was just us together.


DS is so pleased with the kitten. ggggrrrrrrr  He doesn't understand why I'm not.


Life just got more difficult.


 


 


 


 

K

K

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In reply to: kreader_
Sat, 07-10-2010 - 6:49pm

Have not had that kind of issue w/DS, cannot have pets in apt but can only imagine if we could though his experience w/having multiple pets definitely has left him w/not wanting multiple pets...they had 3 dogs, 2 cats & fish.

Take care.  God bless u & yours,


Joan

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Registered: 04-02-2003
In reply to: kreader_
Sat, 07-10-2010 - 9:28pm
No, this is not good at all.








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In reply to: kreader_
Sat, 07-10-2010 - 10:51pm

That was so wrong Karen. I don't blame you for being upset. I sure hope a wonderful job comes through for you so you can get a place of your own and move on. That sounds like a bad situation...getting worse. So sorry.

Beach
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In reply to: kreader_
Sun, 07-11-2010 - 3:15am
I hate it when life gets even more difficult for you Karen. Sending lots of hugs and hopes that things sort out really soon. It's not only DSs who do stupid things, my adult DGD, insisted on getting a dog, even though they lived in an apartment. Sure enough, dog was banned, and had to come here. Victimised DD's cat HoneyBear, kept tripping me up, and put the neighbours off side. Eventually had to find another home for him, and even they gave up after a while. Next thing DGD did was bring a cat that she 'had to have' - he was horrible! Beat up on HoneyBear, and leapt on her from the top of doors or the wardrobe - she freaked! Please try and keep smiling, Sweetheart. We are all here for you. Love and hugs, Jenni