**TUESDAY TIPS**
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**TUESDAY TIPS**
| Tue, 07-15-2003 - 9:31am |
Happy Tuesday everyone!!!! We're going to *spice* things up a bit with our Tuesday tips today ;oD
What are some tips on how to keep that BD-fest lively and stress free- yet of course, productive??? Please share your secrets for a happy BD-fest!
Have a great day all!
((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))
Tara & Connie

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Let's see...
Pre-Seed can make things a little more *comfortable* if you need a little extra lubrication (ewww...I hate that word!). Everything I've heard about it says its sperm-friendly and works similar to EWCM. If anyone has heard negative things about it, PLEASE speak up! Anywhoo, it's the only 'sperm-friendly' *help* out there, so we use it sometimes and it can make the BDing more enjoyable :)
We also sort of make it into a little game sometimes...if it needs to be a 'quickie' I say, "honey, I need a quick deposit, banks closing soon", and he turns into the best bank depositer I know :) Okay, TMI...sorry!
A couple of times we've almost missed the prime BDing times due to a silly argument. At that point I usually suck it up, put away my pride, and make an effort to be the first one to apologize or to reason things out. Not only is this a healthy way to deal with things at any time, but it ensures you get his 'boys' when they're most needed! Of course this doesn't work for a serious argument, but you get the idea.
Well, that's all I can think of right now...I'll post more if I think of them!
Lori
Heehee- I can't wait to see what other suggestions there are!
Tara
Tara~ co-cl of Pregnant after TTC
When dh comes home exhausted from work, I like to help him relax with a light massage, and it usually turns into a full body to body massage...there is no feeling greater than the warmth of skin to skin......
Carrie
TTC#3, c2, cd5
Hope that helps!
Leslie
Never understimate the power of black lace...
Jennie
It depends on the time of day and situation:
Sometimes I will get out of the shower, spray on some of the body splash that is his favorite, and call for him to put lotion on my back. Cheesy--but it usually works.
Sometimes I will make a candlelit dinner and put on some music and get his favorite wine.
If none of these work, I get out the see-through nightie--but since I am trying to lose weight and TTC and not drinking, this usually is a last resort as I always want to drink before I put on that nightie--LOL!
Can't wait until I am not always the initiator! Ha-ha!
Shelley
White t-shirt...no panties...and I go sit on his lap whether he is on the sofa or in his office working (HOME office!!!)...He IMMEDIATELY gets turned on!
Also...I agree with Danielle...just walking around naked sometimes will get him going...(nope...we have no kids yet!).
And once in the bedroom...candlelight and music are great...and play around with the positions some...be "creative"...
Anne
Anne - Proud Mommy to Rachel Elizabeth!
My DH LOVES the plaid skirt outfit!! He also likes a black jacket & black high heels...He even bought a chain mail top for me that he doesn't get to see often but goes crazy when he does(blushing now)!!!
But a different tip..... when I am in the kitchen, I will call him in to test something. I will then put it on his index finger.... And then slowly lick it off. I am good to go for days with that one :) Sorry if TMI
~T~
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