Isn't sex the most important thing?

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Registered: 08-18-2003
Isn't sex the most important thing?
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Fri, 09-19-2003 - 10:53am
That was DH's response last night when I told him we should be careful during foreplay about using saliva, etc. b/c of killing sperm and what-not. He looked at me so matter of factly, and said "Um...isn't sex the most important thing ?

I guess he kind of put my obsessing in perspective...

Dana

TTC #2, C2, CD 17, 1-2dpo

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Registered: 07-02-2003
Fri, 09-19-2003 - 11:01am
LOL and I totally agree. Its so hard to keep from becoming obsessed, I use little tricks on myself, I don't call it BD even in my own head. Its still Sex or Making Love with a little bonus ;)

I live my life in "this moment" I don't forward about if I get pregnant now next year at this time bla bla. I don't look at baby clothes/nursery items (well I glance but I don't buy anything etc). I am very happy/satisfied in my relationship with my husband, I revel in that and stay focused on that. If we end up with a baby its icing on the cake, but if not we still have a wonderful relationship/life, and there are other ways to become a mother.

I have seen marriages get torn apart and fail over TTC and I do not want to be in that group.

:)M