Aunt Flo thought i told you to GO AWAY

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Tue, 09-23-2003 - 8:50am


well it was all a loss af arrived at 130 am today. haven't told dh he's not really gonna care tho. sorry girls but i'm getting to the point of giving up.

lissa

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Tue, 09-23-2003 - 11:09am


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Tue, 09-23-2003 - 11:21am
Oh Lissa- I'm so sorry Sweetie! Huge (((((((((hugs))))))))))))))) Don't give up yet- I know it's not fair and so frustrating, depressing, and sad that that bfp just isn't coming yet, but it will- I promise you it will. I'm not sure how long you've been ttc- but if it's any comfort it took dh and I 19 months to conceive ds. I just feel so heartbroken for you Hon...I'm so sorry! More ((((hugs))))) LOLove, Connie
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Tue, 09-23-2003 - 11:27am
with todays show of AF its now 12 active months and 18 since we decided to start trying.

thanks connie

lissa
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Tue, 09-23-2003 - 11:34am
(((((HUGS))))) Lissa...I am so sorry you are feeling so sad. Don't give up, I am sure it will happen for you! Hang in there...

((hugs)), Alicia

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Tue, 09-23-2003 - 12:43pm
Ah Lissa- that is a long time....may I ask you a personal question? Have you thought of getting some more testing done- dh's s/a, getting into an RE, maybe get an hsg? Sorry- I know it's such a sensitive topic, especially with af on your doorstep- please forgive me if I'm overstepping. (((((hugs)))))) LOLove, Connie
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Tue, 09-23-2003 - 12:50pm


its ok Connie,

dh has an SA scheduled for monday the 29th adn once he gets that done i'm gonna make my calls and see a dr. maybe this time i'll get the resepct i deserve from a dr. last time it was kinda a loss since hte dr didn't seem to care due to me only being 22. now its been 18 months since we started trying and we weren't given any info then its only been since i got here that i learned that there were more tests that can be done. i've crossed my fingers for three months now htat i'd get a pos test back but all i've gotten were tears nad a dh who didn't seem to care, he does now and i guess were back to square one again. i'll let you know what happens when he gets his results back.

love ya

lissa
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Tue, 09-23-2003 - 12:57pm
Huge (((((((((hugs)))))))))) That's great to hear. I think when ttc issues go on and on and dh's just don't seem to care- thinking it's always something with us, not them...so while they're young and saying it "can't be me"...when the reality comes that it really could be them- it opens their eyes up a bit more and they really do start caring. I'm glad he's great with this and while you're both young- it's a good thing to get started on- you want a family and time goes so fast you can't delay too long. I'm sure whatever his s/a results you'll get some great advice from the dr's and there are many things to do to help s/a mobility, etc- that are so simple, like just taking certain vitamins, etc. I'm betting you'll have your bfp before the end of the year- hang in there Hon, we love you here and will stick with you throughout all this! More (((hugs)))) Love, Con
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Tue, 09-23-2003 - 3:32pm
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Tue, 09-23-2003 - 7:35pm
((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))

Sorry she showed. Don't give up though, I think you need to see the doc. They'll listen to you.

Jen

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