this month is going to bring nothing ..

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this month is going to bring nothing ..
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Tue, 12-16-2008 - 5:36am
This month is going to bring a negative for me .. yet again :( My temp took another big dip today and I'm sure AF will arrive on Friday. I'm still getting BFNs on tests. We're definitely timing things right and I'm O'ing. I'm so sad and frustrated that this seems not to be happening.



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Registered: 09-20-2008
Tue, 12-16-2008 - 7:08am


((((HUGS)))
I know it's frustrating because I'm in the same boat as you.
All we can do is try to be patient and have fun TTC! Easier said than done, I know.
I'm sorry I don't have more comforting words, but I really do sympathize with you.
I'll pray that this month you'll get your BFP because it's not over until AF shows!

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Registered: 09-02-2008
Tue, 12-16-2008 - 8:46am

Robin I really hope that getting AF is not the case, and that this is your month. I wish I knew a bit more about charting to give you some advice. I am sure some of the ladies around here can help.


In any case, big HUGS to you...




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Tue, 12-16-2008 - 9:14am
I don't know what to think. I don't *feel* like AF is coming. My boobs are tender, but not sore like they usually are. I've been nauseous too. I was just hoping my temp would remain up today. I know I'm not out until AF shows, but I can't help but feel she's going to come again and I'm having no luck on this quest :(



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Tue, 12-16-2008 - 12:47pm
Another weird thing is that usually before AF I want to eat EVERYTHING and the past day or two I want to eat NOTHING. But we pretty much have to rely on what the temps are telling us more than anything right?



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Tue, 12-16-2008 - 12:59pm
I would say don't necessarily count yourself out totally just yet. I would stop poas and wait until the day af is due and test then. You're still early yet. The other thing to do would be to talk to your dr since typically over 35 6 months is enough to get fertility testing. See if your dr would be willing to get your dh in for an SA now as opposed to waiting one more cycle.

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Tue, 12-16-2008 - 2:42pm

Robin, please don't count yourself out until the hag shows!!!! You are still a little early, and try to remember that temps can fluctuate when you are pg, which is why we're told not to pay attention to temps after we get our BFP. So, keep your head up!!! I know how you feel though. I just realized that I probably didnt even O yet. Soy isoflavones raise the LH in your system, which caused false + opk's...which is probably the case with me, since my 1st + opk was the day after my last soy pill. So...just stay positive!! I agree with pp, to see if you can get DH in for an SA and see if its his guys that might be the issue..


good luck with everything!!!

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Tue, 12-16-2008 - 6:31pm

I completely understand. Seriously, its so hard, isnt it? I'm 9dpo and started spotting today. I usually start spotting around 10-11dpo, so its pretty on track for AF to show. We timed it right, I'm pretty sure I O'd (due to positive then negative OPKs and temps higher than normal) So I guess its just not our time.


All I can say, is for each of us that dont get a Christmas BFP, I hope someone else does! Hang in there- we'll eventually make it...

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Wed, 12-17-2008 - 8:56am
Temp is a tiny bit up from yesterday, so not consistently dropping. I don't know what to think. We'll see ... AF should arrive Friday.



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Wed, 12-17-2008 - 6:54pm
Robin I hope she doesn't show! Keep us posted, I'm sending you BFP vibes!



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