Are we ever going to get ou BFP

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Registered: 02-11-2008
Are we ever going to get ou BFP
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Wed, 12-17-2008 - 1:24pm

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Registered: 09-02-2008
Wed, 12-17-2008 - 5:10pm

You are in my prayers! This is so hard. Remind your DH that we only have a 25 % chance of getting pregnant each month...yes sometimes women hit the jackpot quickly but it can take other people longer. My Mom was in perfect health, perfect weight, and everything in place but it still took her a year to get pregnant with me. Took my Grandma 2 years to get pregnant with my dad and then nine months later BAM accidentally got pregnant with twins.
You just never know...I know it doesn't make it any easier, every month when I see negatives and then get AF it gets harder. Maybe your OB/GYN can do some very basic testing and your DH could get his SA just to have some insight, if they will allow it and you are okay with it. That might reassure DH.

Sorry the ugly witch showed..we are here for you if you need us.




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Registered: 02-11-2008
Thu, 12-18-2008 - 12:05am

Aw thank you so much for keeping us in your prayers god knows we need it . Yeah AF comming to town made Dh sad but we've only been actively trying 10 months , my OB told me that she doesn't start offering fertilty help as far as fertility drugs & ordering fertility tests on both partners until