It's very discouraging, really...

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It's very discouraging, really...
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Mon, 03-02-2009 - 11:00pm

I just realized that this cycle

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Mon, 03-02-2009 - 11:28pm

I know exactly how you feel! I think its way harder than I thought it was going to be. I thought, okay I'll get off BCP in July, start trying after a couple months and surely I'll be pregnant in a few months. Well Im on my first cycle of Clomid and its looking unsuccessful. And its so hard to see so many women out there having kids on accident, etc.


I really respect those who have been trying for years, but seriously how does anyone not think about it all the time. Ive tried keeping myself busy, I've tried relaxing and letting things happen, I've done everything I can (temping, OPK, lots of BD, going to the dr, etc) so I just feel helpess.


I dont know what to tell you, but I just wanted you to know I feel exactly the way youre feeling and I know there are plenty of other women that feel the same too. We'll just keep our head up, as much as we can.

~Lilli


TTC since Nov 2008


02/11/09 First cycle of Clomid, 50mg, CD2-6


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Tue, 03-03-2009 - 6:53am
You're not the only one thinking this way. My husband and I talk about this alot ... next cycle will be our last to try for a 2009 baby. Its so frustrating.



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Tue, 03-03-2009 - 7:49am
I'm sorry you're feeling discouraged.

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Tue, 03-03-2009 - 10:10am

i have been here for a year and i know it's sooooooooo frustrating.2009 baby is a dream at this point.


i don't know if i will ever see a bfp again .


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Tue, 03-03-2009 - 10:33am

I'm right there with you, Stephanie!! I know how you feel. It's impossible NOT to think of it every hour...every second of the day. I wish I had some profound words of wisdom...but I don't. All I can say is don't give up hope!!! I go for my second IUI today and I hear every second of the clock ticking. Hopefully the luck of the Irish will be with us BOTH this month!!!

Hang in there sweets!!

~Danielle

I'm 38 and have been trying to conceive since July 2008. I had my first IUI with Femara on Feb 4th and AF (the meanie) showed up. Try and try again! :o) I was lucky enough to find my Mr. Perfect 2 years ago and we have 2 goofy but lovable pups! :o)

Me:I'm 38 and have been trying to conceive since June 2008. Cycles 1-7 natural BFN Cycle 8- IUI with Femara and trigger BFN Cycle 9- IUI with Femara and trigger BFN

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Tue, 03-03-2009 - 10:38am
yes, im feeling the same way! i got married august of 2008, thinking that i would get pg immediatly....not so much. i figured it would be so easy to have a baby, but now im looking at 2010 dates. :( it is honestly frustrating! im here for you...:)
 
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Tue, 03-03-2009 - 11:09am
this is a good post, cause me being naive forgot about this being my last cycle for a 2009 baby...:( its a sad thought, but i guess we all need to keep are heads held high and know that our miracle will hopefully be here sooner than later...good luck to all.
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Lilypie 21 - 37 day cycle Ticker
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Tue, 03-03-2009 - 11:20am

I to know exactly what you are going through. We have been ttc since Jan. 06. We had a set back when we found out that I had a thyroid problem. Now we are going to have to do IVF. No matter if you have been trying for 10 months or 2 years, it feels about the

   
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Tue, 03-03-2009 - 11:21am
I just realized this myself last night.