What does your DH/SO think about TTC?

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What does your DH/SO think about TTC?
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Wed, 06-10-2009 - 10:43pm
While DH has agreed to "stop preventing" (which he was doing by pulling out since I'm now off BCP), he is no where near as enthusiastic as I am.
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Wed, 06-10-2009 - 11:00pm
Prefers not to know the details and wants to just see what happens. He is not actively unhappy about it and occasionally makes comments like "when our daughter is such and such an age we'll need to think about..." Obviously it is on his mind but I still don't know if those comments are his way of so-called "throwing me a bone".
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Wed, 06-10-2009 - 11:45pm
My dh is just as heartbroken when AF arrives as I am.

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Thu, 06-11-2009 - 12:19am

Sean (my DH) doesn't have the same inner drive I do to have more kids, as in I feel deeply that I am to have more. But he's not opposed to it. He LOOOOOVES babies. Isn't too keen on changing diapers for 3 more years... lol, but that's okay.


He looks at my chart every day, listens to me talk about CM and asks what my temp does.


ANd he enjoys the sex marathons. ;-)


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Thu, 06-11-2009 - 12:43am
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Thu, 06-11-2009 - 9:10am

Hi Tammy,


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Registered: 08-05-2003
Thu, 06-11-2009 - 9:50am

You're dh sounds just like mine.

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Thu, 06-11-2009 - 10:09am

Good to hear there are other DHs like mine!

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Thu, 06-11-2009 - 12:50pm

Hi I would like to introduce myself. I am Jacquedia (Jay) 25 and DH is Van 26. We have two DD's Jaslyn and Jayla. We are officially TTC#3 starting this cycle and we are going for a boy, but we will be happy with another girl as well.

To answer the topic question

My DH didn't want to TTC#3 at first, but like everything else he always wants to make me happy. Anyway I am doing the boy diet and supplements and he is actually asking questions and making sure I take my pills. I am now using the CBEFM and he asks me what my reading was. So yes my DH is asking questions and expresses interest.

I look forward to getting to know you ladies!!! Baby dust to you all!!If there are any TWW's and beyond GL.

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Thu, 06-11-2009 - 3:08pm

My husband is excited. I think he'd have liked to try sooner, but he was waiting for me to be ready. Our 1st anniversary is in a couple of weeks, and we decided to let my son become adjusted to the new house, new school, new grandparents, new everything and allow time for my hubby to adopt him.

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Registered: 03-01-2009
Thu, 06-11-2009 - 3:26pm
DH is all about ttc to some extent. He is as excited as I am about the idea of being a parent, and he asks questions about my temp and how things are going. We had one issue where it felt like BD was taking forever and I asked him if everything was ok...he said he felt pressured. Since that night, I have let up on providing details, only filling him in when he asks questions. I don't want to lose the intimacy and passion that we already have just because we're ttc.


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