Second thoughts now that we are TTC

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Registered: 03-09-2004
Second thoughts now that we are TTC
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Tue, 06-30-2009 - 12:58pm

Anybody having 2nd thoughts about TTC now that you are trying? I am. We have 2 kids....boy age 4, and girl age 21 months. I was so revved up to TTC...until AF came and it is now official that we are TTC this cycle. Its scarey! 3 kids 4 and under! We know we want another baby....it is just the timing of it. I dont want my kids too far apart, but not too close either. My first 2 are 27 months apart...so even I got pregnant this cycle, #2 and #3 would be a little further apart.

We would be ecstatic if we got pregnant....but I'm still wary of being excited about TTC if you know what I mean? It is a huge step!

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Registered: 03-01-2009
Tue, 06-30-2009 - 6:26pm
I don't have any kids yet, but I know the process of ttc is associated with so many emotions...I can't even imagine what it's like to envision 3 little ones! That said, I think if you're serious about it, these feelings will pass. Maybe once you get into it, charting or whatever else you're doing to track your cycle, you'll feel a little less panicked. It's normal to have anxiety and second thoughts but
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Registered: 06-09-2009
Tue, 06-30-2009 - 7:38pm

Funny you post this.

Shannon & Christopher Lilypie

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