i'm having the same issue. we just have to have exceptional timing cause he is so stressed out it only works once every so often. plus he is on anti-depressants which make it worse. this is our 5th cycle and i think the timing this time around was terrific - i used opk's and temped and used preseed. hopefully this will be the month!
Me (36) DH (38)- me-unexplained IF/hypothyroid -DH-counts good, but volume is low; Married in 2006, off birth control pill. Started officially trying in March of 2009. 2 rounds clomid/ovidrel 2009, 1 round femara/iui, 2010, 2 rounds follistim/iui 2010. Weight loss surgery 2011. Back to new RE 2012: HSG normal, AMH 0.43= DOR; IVF with microdose flare protocol in February 2013.
I don't have any ideas to help, but I would like to add you aren't alone! I actually just found out this past cycle that my DH can't always tell *when* he climaxes, which just seemed crazy to me. Sometimes he does and didn't realize it, sometimes he never does and can't tell that he hasn't. I had no idea that was even possible!!
It is kind of embarrassing but I do agree that oral helps the man get hard and takes a little of the pressure off of them. Then they are more relaxed during intercourse...not sure why it is but it seems to work for us so that is what we
I know with DF there is one certain position that ALWAYS work for a quickie, does your hubby have something like that? Sometimes certain outfits can do it to. HTH
Hey... I'll try it. I have thought about that, but it has been too late... already BDing. We'll see.
Kelly
TTC 14 Months
My Ovulation Chart
Me (36) DH (38)- me-unexplained IF/hypothyroid -DH-counts good, but volume is low; Married in 2006, off birth control pill. Started officially trying in March of 2009.
2 rounds clomid/ovidrel 2009, 1 round femara/iui, 2010, 2 rounds follistim/iui 2010. Weight loss surgery 2011. Back to new RE 2012: HSG normal, AMH 0.43= DOR; IVF with microdose flare protocol in February 2013.
I am so glad to hear someone else is dealing with this......
Kelly
TTC 14 Months
My Ovulation Chart
I don't have any ideas to help, but I would like to add you aren't alone! I actually just found out this past cycle that my DH can't always tell *when* he climaxes, which just seemed crazy to me. Sometimes he does and didn't realize it, sometimes he never does and can't tell that he hasn't. I had no idea that was even possible!!
FX that it works out for you this cycle!!
Thanks Ladies!
All good ideas.
Kelly
TTC 14 Months
My Ovulation Chart
That is one of teh hardest parts of TTCing - everything you do on a nonstressful, relaxing way you CANNOT do - UGH!!
Kelly
TTC 14 Months
My Ovulation Chart