Oh no, I am so sorry. Don't worry about sounding negative, you are in the midst of heartache. This happens even to much younger women, so don't start blaming yourself for having "old" eggs, these things just happen regardless of age. I am glad to hear you will be trying again, I know it can be so hard. Please keep us posted on your journey, and hopefully you will be posting another bfp very soon. ((((Hugs))))
Im soo sorry for your loss, on the bright side if there was nothing in the sac it sounds like a blighted ovum and there was not an embryo why is this better??? Because it means that you have egss you just have to catch the golden one!! Hugs and hang in there. Take time to for yourself and jump on the TTC train again you will eventully catch the golden egg!
I am soooo sorry to read your post!! It brought back a lot of emotion for me. I went thru the same situation in Aug; got BFP in July, went in for 1st u/s and all they could see was an empty sac. I was devastated. I too had a D&C. Here's sending you HUGS!! I am feeling a bit down right now. System seem to bounce back fairly quickly and went thru my 1st real cycle since D&C. "O" was a little off though I had high hopes of getting a BFP. But no, AF decided to show her ugly face a couple of days late. BUT, I am still hopeful and figured that maybe my body needed to heal just a little more to get ready for the next BFP. I still have difficult days and doubts. Give yourself time and space to grieve (can be hard b/c I felt embarrassed/ashamed/sad/angry, etc in addition to feeling like I had to keep quiet about the lost).
I am here if you need to vent or just be heard or for comfort.
Alex
Me - 41 DH - 48
TTC since March '09 (#1 for me, #2 for DH)
BFP 7/09 - M/C 8/09
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Words can not express how sorry I am to hear of your news.
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Thank you Kristi and Melissa for your kind words and support.
Michelle
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Michelle
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I am so sorry for your loss.
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Oh Carolina, I am sooo sorry!!
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Hi Carolina,
I am soooo sorry to read your post!! It brought back a lot of emotion for me. I went thru the same situation in Aug; got BFP in July, went in for 1st u/s and all they could see was an empty sac. I was devastated. I too had a D&C. Here's sending you HUGS!! I am feeling a bit down right now. System seem to bounce back fairly quickly and went thru my 1st real cycle since D&C. "O" was a little off though I had high hopes of getting a BFP. But no, AF decided to show her ugly face a couple of days late. BUT, I am still hopeful and figured that maybe my body needed to heal just a little more to get ready for the next BFP. I still have difficult days and doubts. Give yourself time and space to grieve (can be hard b/c I felt embarrassed/ashamed/sad/angry, etc in addition to feeling like I had to keep quiet about the lost).
I am here if you need to vent or just be heard or for comfort.
Alex
Me - 41 DH - 48
TTC since March '09 (#1 for me, #2 for DH)
BFP 7/09 - M/C 8/09
Alex
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