I just cannot understand this

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I just cannot understand this
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Fri, 04-23-2004 - 11:44am
This is my first time to post on this board.  I just read this on AOL news channel and it just blew me away.  I realize it may be a cultural differance, but I cannot understand this at all!    Alicia

 

 

 

Freed From Captivity, Japanese Return to More Pain


By NORIMITSU ONISHI, The New York Times























The three hostages' arrival in Japan was met mostly by disapproval.






TOKYO, April 22 — The young Japanese civilians taken hostage in Iraq returned home this week, not to the warmth of a yellow-ribbon embrace but to a disapproving nation's cold stare.


Three of them, including a woman who helped street children on the streets of Baghdad, appeared on television two weeks ago as their knife-brandishing kidnappers threatened to slit their throats. A few days after their release, they landed here on Sunday, in the eye of a peculiarly Japanese storm.


"You got what you deserve!" read one hand-written sign at the airport where they landed. "You are Japan's shame," another wrote on the Web site of one of the former hostages. They had "caused trouble" for everybody. The government, not to be outdone, announced it would bill the former hostages $6,000 for air fare.


Beneath the surface of Japan's ultra-sophisticated cities lie the hierarchical ties that have governed this island nation for centuries and that, at moments of crises, invariably reassert themselves. The former hostages' transgression was to ignore a government advisory against traveling to Iraq. But their sin, in a vertical society that likes to think of itself as classless, was to defy what people call here "okami," or, literally, "what is higher."


Treated like criminals, the three former hostages have gone into hiding, effectively becoming prisoners inside their own homes. The kidnapped woman, Nahoko Takato, was last seen arriving at her parents' house, looking defeated and dazed from tranquilizers, flanked by relatives who helped her walk and bow deeply before reporters, as a final apology to the nation.


Dr. Satoru Saito, a psychiatrist who examined the three former hostages twice since their return, said the stress they were enduring now was "much heavier" than what they experienced during their captivity in Iraq. Asked to name their three most stressful moments, the former hostages told him, in ascending order: the moment when they were kidnapped on their way to Baghdad, the knife-wielding incident, and the moment they watched a television show the morning after their return here and realized Japan's anger with them.


"Let's say the knife incident, which lasted about 10 minutes, ranks 10 on a stress level," Dr. Saito said in an interview at his clinic on Thursday. "After they came back to Japan and saw the morning news show, their stress level ranked 12."


To the angry Japanese, the first three hostages — Nahoko Takato, 34, who started a nonprofit organization to help Iraqi street children; Soichiro Koriyama, 32, a freelance photographer; and Noriaki Imai, 18, a freelance writer interested in the issue of depleted uranium munitions — had acted selfishly. Two others kidnapped and released in a separate incident — Junpei Yasuda, 30, a freelance journalist, and Nobutaka Watanabe, 36, a member of an anti-war group — were equally guilty.


Pursuing individual goals by defying the government and causing trouble for Japan was simply unforgivable. But the freed hostages did get official praise from one government: the United States.


"Well, everybody should understand the risk they are taking by going into dangerous areas," said Secretary of State Colin L. Powell. "But if nobody was willing to take a risk, then we would never move forward. We would never move our world forward.


"And so I'm pleased that these Japanese citizens were willing to put themselves at risk for a greater good, for a better purpose. And the Japanese people should be very proud that they have citizens like this willing to do that."


In contrast, Yasuo Fukuda, the Japanese government's spokesman offered this about the captives' ordeal: "They may have gone on their own but they must consider how many
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Alicia ~ Sahm to Katie (10/97) and Deanna (9/99).


Alicia ~ Sahm to Katie (10/97) and Deanna (9/99).

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Fri, 04-23-2004 - 12:31pm

Link to Pages 1&2........


http://www.nytimes.com/2004/04/23/international/asia/23JAPA.html?pagewanted=1


http://www.nytimes.com/2004/04/23/international/asia/23JAPA.html?pagewanted=2


Could this be similar to annoyance I feel when climbers, or some other dangerous venture, pick an inappropriate time of year with bad weather conditions etc.

 


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Fri, 04-23-2004 - 2:07pm
I agree.

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Fri, 04-23-2004 - 2:11pm
I disagree, I think they did know the dangers going in, but this was not a group of people going Cliffclimbing because it would be "cool" these were people who were willing to risk themselves to help someone else, do it for the greater good.
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Fri, 04-23-2004 - 2:39pm

I said that it was sad that the entire nation was treating them that way.


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Fri, 04-23-2004 - 5:08pm
I was about to post almost the exact same sentiments as you just expressed.

Alicia ~ Sahm to Katie (10/97) and Deanna (9/99).

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Fri, 04-23-2004 - 5:19pm
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This activity is culturally different. There is a Japanese saying, "The nail that stands up gets smashed down." This is particularly difficult for an individualistic American to understand. In Japan the focus is upon the collective, not the individuaal. So when the individual goes against the desire of all, it threatens the unity of the society--a most dangerous situation.

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Fri, 04-23-2004 - 6:48pm
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Just like the 'Borgs on Star Trek.

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Fri, 04-23-2004 - 7:27pm
It's a cultural thing. She placed her personal mission, no matter how altruistic, above her responsibility not to bring embarrassment and trouble her family, her society, and her government.

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Fri, 04-23-2004 - 7:35pm
Australians have been less than sympthetic towards one of their freed hostages, and coming from a culture more similar to ours, I think their response is easier for us to understand.

http://www.theage.com.au/articles/2004/04/16/1082055630656.html

Renee

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Fri, 04-23-2004 - 7:57pm

No...I think they're more like Vulcans.


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