A Florida Culture-War Circus: Rifqa Bary
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| Mon, 08-24-2009 - 10:11am |
Oh my!
Are these evangelicals using this Rifqa for their own hate filled agenda?
Would Westernised Muslim parents, that allow their daughter to be a cheer leader, actually kill her for going against their religion?
Politicians should stay out of this but it's already too late.
A Florida Culture-War Circus: The Fight for Rifqa Bary
http://www.time.com/time/nation/article/0,8599,1918228-1,00.html
Florida has a knack for turning family dysfunction into national spectacle. Ten years ago it gave us the Elián Gonzalez mess; five years later the Terri Schiavo debacle. Now we have a new domestic dispute which threatens to become another culture-war circus, complete with a clash-of-religions angle to boot: the battle for Rifqa Bary, a 17-year-old girl from Columbus, Ohio, who has run away to an evangelical church in Orlando, Florida, because she claims her Sri Lankan Muslim family back at home has threatened to kill her for recently converting to Christianity.
The saga began in mid-July when Rifqa, after a dispute with her parents, bolted her home and rode a bus to Orlando. There she took refuge with the Rev. Blake Lorenz, the pastor of a conservative Christian congregation, the Global Revolution Church, and his wife, Beverly, whom the cheerleader and honor student had met on Facebook. Almost three weeks later, on Aug. 6, the Lorenzes finally let authorities and Rifqa's frantic parents know the girl was with them. Then, a few days later, Rifqa dropped a bombshell to an Orlando television station: she had run away, she claimed, because her family, angry about her conversion to Christianity, had "threatened to kill me." (Read "What's Holding Back Arab Women?")
Wearing a white dress and a silver cross, her dark hair often falling over her scared eyes, the small and slender Rifqa insisted in the TV interview (now on YouTube) that her father, Mohamed Bary, a Columbus jeweler, "said he would kill me or send me back to Sri Lanka," where she said "they have asylums where they put people like me." She said her death would be a Muslim "honor killing," the kind of murder that women in deeply conservative Muslim societies are sometimes victims of when they're deemed to have shamed their families. (The United Nations Population Fund estimates as many as 5,000 worldwide each year.) Rifqa said her father, upon discovering her Facebook profile and its declarations of her Christian faith, told her, "If you have this Jesus in your heart, you're dead to me, you're not my daughter." She added, almost hysterically, "They have to kill me...I want to worship Jesus freely. I don't want to die!"
It's a serious charge that any law enforcement or social services official would have to look into, particularly since there have in fact been some extremely rare instances of "honor killings" in the U.S. Most recently two Dallas-area sisters were murdered last year, allegedly by their Egyptian-born Muslim father, who relatives say was enraged that his daughters, 18 and 17 years old, were dating non-Muslim boys. (The father is still at large and believed to have fled the country.) But Mohamed Bary and his wife Aysha adamantly insist it is "completely false" that they ever threatened to kill Rifqa over her conversion. "We love her, we want her back, she is free to practice her religion, whatever she believes in, that's OK," Mohamed told the Associated Press last week.
Columbus police tell TIME they're watching the case closely, and are in contact with the courts and social services agencies in Ohio and Florida; but they have so far found no evidence or other information themselves to support Rifqa's accusation. Craig McCarthy, one of two Orlando attorneys appointed to represent the Barys in Florida, says that while they may have been dismayed at first by Rifqa's conversion, as devout parents of any faith would be, they are hardly the kind of fundamentalist Muslims who would declare a medieval fatwa, or death sentence, on their daughter. "There is a vast, vast difference between not being pleased that your child has not chosen your faith and wanting to kill your child," says McCarthy. "This is a family with westernized kids. Their daughter is a cheerleader."
If Rifqa's claims are indeed false, that raises the question of whether she might have been prodded by her new friends at Global Revolution Church to make the death-threat accusations, and if she was somehow lured to Orlando by the Lorenzes via the Internet. The couple, who could not be reached for comment, has denied it to the media. But Beverly Lorenz has also acknowledged that she talked by phone with Rifqa before the girl ran away. Blake Lorenz not only insists Rifqa will be killed if she goes back home; earlier this month he made it clear to reporters his Crusades-era belief that this is part of Christianity's holy struggle against Islam: "These are the last days, these are the end times," he said, "and this conflict between Islam and Christianity is going to grow greater. This conflict between good and evil is going to grow greater."
As a result, says McCarthy, "you wonder if people have been stoking this fear in her head, telling her, 'This is what the Koran says will happen to you'." The Orlando lawyer who claims to represent Rifqa, conservative activist John Stemberger, head of the Florida Family Policy Council (which fought in 2005 to keep Terri Schiavo on life support), last week wrote in a petition to keep the girl in Florida that she "is in imminent threat of harm from the extreme radical Muslim community in her hometown of Columbus"; and he warned that one of the world's largest "cells of Al Qaeda operatives" once worked from a Columbus mosque the Barys have attended. He bases those sweeping claims on the fact that Salah Sultan, a controversial Islamic scholar who denies Arab terrorists committed the 9/11 attacks, once had ties to the city's Muslim community. (Stemberger could not be reached for comment.) (Read "Marked Women.")
After its probe of the situation this month, Florida's Department of Children & Family Services took Rifqa from the Lorenzes and placed her in foster care. At a Friday hearing in Orlando, a judge ruled that she could remain in Florida until he decides, probably at a later hearing slated for September 3, where she should ultimately go. (McCarthy says the Barys were willing to let Rifqa be placed in Ohio foster care while the case is adjudicated.)
Not surprisingly, Rifqa is already turning into a cause celebre. Conservative websites often accused of anti-Muslim agendas, such as The Jawa Report, Atlas Shrugs and WorldNetDaily, have been lighting up over the Rifqa fight. No doubt conservative and anti-U.S. Muslims will eventually step into the media frenzy. And politicians have already started weighing in. Florida's moderate Republican Governor and U.S. Senate candidate, Charlie Crist, who needs conservative voters to win his state's closed GOP primary next year, issued a statement on Friday saying he's "grateful to Circuit Judge Daniel Dawson for his decision to grant the right to remain in Florida...We will continue to fight to protect Rifqa's safety and wellbeing as we move forward." Crist's conservative primary opponent, former Florida House Speaker Marco Rubio, of course released his own communiqué: "Florida not only has a responsibility to protect innocent life, but also to defend her sacred right to worship freely." True enough. But despite the heated rhetoric once again fueling a Florida fracas, it's not at all clear yet that either of Rifqa Bary's rights is in danger.



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An article I read stated she'd been a convert for 2yrs. (I'll see if I can find it.)
From a blog........
>"According to another article printed in Dawn News: After Rifqa proselytized with a Bible at school, Mohamed Bary had said, the family asked her to stop because it wasn't an appropriate activity in school. They also told her she had an obligation to study her original faith first, before choosing another. But Mohamed Bary says they never threatened her. ‘She is still my daughter,’ said Bary, 47, a jeweller."<
>"First of all her life is not in danger but even if it was Paster Blake Lorenz and his wife should have alerted the authorities rather than having a minor cross state lines. It clearly is a case of abduction. They don't have a right to keep a 17year old child in their home for three weeks without the consent of her parents. The authorities or social services should have been notified. I have every reason to believe that she is being used as an instrument to spread hate against Islam. Someone has been stoking this fear in her head that she will be killed. Again, Islam doesn't want it's followers to take law in to their own hands. They have to respect the laws of the land."<
http://www.examiner.com/x-4459-NY-Muslim-Examiner~y2009m8d24-Case-of-Rifqa-Barry-another-attempt-to-defame-Islam
The blogger
Yes there's more to this story. Becoming a Christian could be her way of rebelling.
Here on our local News, they interviewed the father. If I remember correctly, he said he and his wife have known for about a year that she was interested in Christianity. They live less than 15 miles from me. A very wealthy community.
I also remember seeing a young man,(that she had been communicating with via internet, that happen to be a member of this Church) talking about how she had been afraid for about a year. I don't know. It just seems fishy to me.
The father seemed to really love his daughter.
Just breaking News. A judge decided the teen must return to Ohio. She will not be living with her parents for now.
Just a side note. I've seen the parent's several times on TV. They seem to really love their daughter.
Thanks for the update.
I suspect she was under the