Motivation
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| Tue, 02-03-2004 - 10:14am |
Oh yeah, my dh saw my post and insisted I write some good things about him too. (so yall don't beat him up).... he can be good as well as bad. =o) last night he cleaned up the kitchen and this morning he got up with our son and took care of getting him to school so I could sleep in.
We have our differences. Our marriage is...... hard to describe without giving you a few pages full. But I'll just saying that we are doing what we have to do, and trying to make the best of an unpleasant situation. I'm not really looking for a cure for my marriage right now. I've tried relentlessly for 6 yrs to fix it, I keep getting the same results, so now I've come to realize that I have to take care of the things that I can... which is my behavoir and my own responsibilities. (which I don't take lightly)
My focus with this board is to gain support and give it. "Motivation is one of those things you have to find by looking IN, inward inside yourself, and you won't find it looking OUT for someone, anyone, else to give it to you." that is something snowbird said. Well, I think that a person builds motivation. That is what it takes for me. Somedays I have lots of motivation, but it has been inspired by everything around me, not just from within. Otherdays, I really need more inspiration, more motivation, and when it's not inside me, what better way to find it than to ask for some. People that are inspired and motivated can share that with someone, like a spark of fire, it grows and spreads. And I'm sorry to have taken "it's" comments to pick on instead of the people that love me, but hey, now I've had my little backlash, ; )
Serena
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Sounds like you are feeling better today Serena and Im happy to hear that.