Dr. news

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Registered: 12-02-2003
Dr. news
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Mon, 02-16-2004 - 11:17pm
I will see the dr. tomorrow and see how things look. I am much calmer and no longer crying hysterically at varied points in time. Which is a good thing because I was scaring my cat and dog. I am hoping beyond hope that he was trying to scare me into coming in and that he will immediately dismiss the idea of a hysterectomy. If he doesn't I will see a 2nd dr. If he concurs, I guess I will live with it.

I truly believe things happen for a reason, and I have to accept that maybe the reason I met and fell in love with and married a man with sole custody of his 2 wonderful babies was so that I would have the chance to be a mother. I always thought I had so much that I could give a child, and I can't deny that the last 5 yrs of giving to these two has made my life beautiful and purposeful and brilliantly joyful in a way I never would have had without them. The rest of their lives they are MY children because I am the only Mom they've ever had in their lives. That may have to be enough, and if it is, I can take it.

I love you guys bunches and thanks so much for the kind messages.

Mel

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Registered: 01-04-2004
In reply to: melodyneve
Tue, 02-17-2004 - 3:04pm
Well, I usually try to bite my tongue when these "trolls" stop in, but that was just crossing the line, saying those things when Mel is going through such a tough time. Doesn't that person have a conscience?

~~Linda

~~Linda

 

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Registered: 05-08-2003
In reply to: melodyneve
Tue, 02-17-2004 - 4:24pm
Mel, don't let that awful person bring you down. God shines on women like you who take care of those (such as those little babies) w/o regard for themselves. You are unselfish, loving, and kind--just remember that their love for you is what matters.

We should hit "ignore" when we see her (you know who I'm talking about) posts. PLEASE, let these people just GO.

Dawn

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Registered: 01-15-2004
In reply to: melodyneve
Tue, 02-17-2004 - 5:25pm

What is really amazing about the person/people who post these rude, cruel, comments on this board is that they spend SO much of their time being so hateful. They must lead really sad, pathetic and friendless lives. Can you even imagine knowing someone who would say such things? I really hope that she/they get the help they need because it is obvious that they do.


oh and Soujourn, frankly, I am surprised that you are married at all.


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Registered: 11-04-2003
In reply to: melodyneve
Tue, 02-17-2004 - 6:24pm

I'm kinda coming in not knowing what's going on..........you may

 
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-02-2003
In reply to: melodyneve
Tue, 02-17-2004 - 6:26pm
Aww- sorry you're out of the loop Hon

See post titled Hello Everyone and Dr's Visit info (or something like that)

I DON'T HAVE TO HAVE THE HYSTERECTOMY

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Registered: 12-06-2003
In reply to: melodyneve
Tue, 02-17-2004 - 6:28pm

YAYAYAYYAYAYAYYAYAYAYAYYAYAYAYYAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAYYYYYYYYYAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA


iVillage Member
Registered: 11-04-2003
In reply to: melodyneve
Tue, 02-17-2004 - 6:42pm

Awesome!!

 
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-02-2003
In reply to: melodyneve
Tue, 02-17-2004 - 6:51pm
Thanks- and I love your sig! I am Irish too. I already have all the place settings and doilies in the house switched out with the green ones. :-)

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