Best "friendship" trait?????

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Best "friendship" trait?????
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Mon, 02-23-2004 - 8:19pm

It has come to my attention that my friends call me in time of crisis simply for amusement. I guess I should expect this as a comedian. ;)

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Mon, 02-23-2004 - 8:56pm
I have it on good authority that I have a "way with words" and they call me because no matter what I say it makes them feel better.

And Rob says my best trait is that even when he knows I could care less about something I can convince him that it matters to me long enough to get it off his chest. LOL!

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Mon, 02-23-2004 - 11:16pm
I think that Tina turns to me because Im

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Mon, 02-23-2004 - 11:17pm

good post Divine!!


My siblings and the few friends I do have call me because I am totally unbiased in opinion..or atleast I act that way towards them..I am a bit of

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Tue, 02-24-2004 - 10:00am
People call me to deal with things. If there is a problem that someone is too shy to deal with they ask me to handle it! I have a big mouth I guess!

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Tue, 02-24-2004 - 11:00am

So here's the question, when your friends/family turn to you....which of your traits are they most looking for?


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Tue, 02-24-2004 - 11:49am
I think for me it's my willingness to listen and not judge ... and also my incredibly BLUNT honesty (which ya'll wouldn't know anything about would you LMAOOOO) .... but seriously, I have no problem telling even my bestest friends when they are in the wrong, or offering to kick someones arse for them LOLLLL


 
 
 
 

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Tue, 02-24-2004 - 12:31pm
Good question!! I give really good advice. Usually I get "So what should I do Sara?" and I usually give my opinion, honestly and openly, whether they like the truth or not. I give it out straight, and I think people need that kind of honesty.

Sara

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Tue, 02-24-2004 - 12:43pm
well my friends talked about this a few weeks ago..lol..my good points were: i'm a loyal friend, will tell you my real opinions and can make them laugh
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Tue, 02-24-2004 - 1:17pm
I've been told I'm a good listener. I'm always willing to drop what I'm doing and be there for friends and family. I'm usually pretty blunt with advice when I see fit. But if it's a decision they need to make on their own I'll let them know.

Jessica

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Tue, 02-24-2004 - 6:34pm
Great question.
 

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