Hey people!!! I'm Baaaa--aaack!

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Registered: 06-13-2003
Hey people!!! I'm Baaaa--aaack!
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Mon, 03-01-2004 - 12:39am
Hey everyone!

I've missed y'all these past couple of months. I have been so busy with school and work that the time just got away from me. So did my weight (a little). I stopped filling out my food diary for about a month, and I wound up gaining about 10 lbs. I'm now back to 286, but I feel like I have renewed my commitment to myself and this lifestyle change.

Today, I stayed under 2000 calories for the first time since December. I have been averaging twice that lately. I hope I can stay on the wagon this time. That means I have to stop going out to eat so much.

Anyway, just thought I'd drop y'all a line.

Tony

323/286/220

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Mon, 03-01-2004 - 4:43am

Glad to see your

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Mon, 03-01-2004 - 9:20am

Hi there Tony!

  Shawna-- Proud Cl for 100 Pounds or More to Go 

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Mon, 03-01-2004 - 9:43am
Nice to see you back again!!

We all fall off the wagon and then most of us get back on. It's whether you get back on that matters or not.

I was going to ask the same thing Shawna did...how is the relationship going between you and your lady?

Have a wonderful day!

~Dana

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Mon, 03-01-2004 - 11:21am
Yeah, I thought y'all might ask about that.

It's not really going so well. She is going through a divorce, and I think she still has alot of hurt and confused feelings (I can't blame her). We were supposed to have a romantic dinner this weekend, but she got cold feet and cancelled that. We went out with a group of friends, but that's not what I had anticipated.

I really don't think she is ready for a relationship, and she is really unsure herself. One week she's calling 3-4 times a day, the next is no calls, then the next is three hour conversations. It really is a great relationship when she's in it. We get along real well, and have never argued.

It may be the hardest thing I have to do, but I'm seriously considering walking away. I don't think she wants that, but it may be for the best. It's driving me crazy emotionally (Yes, guys have emotions) because she's giving out mixed signals from week to week.

Anyway, maybe I'll actually get another date before the year is over. That would fit my 2 per year average. In the meantime, I have my computers to keep me warm.

Regards,

Tony

323/286/220

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Mon, 03-01-2004 - 11:34am

Im sorry to hear that Tony.

  Shawna-- Proud Cl for 100 Pounds or More to Go 

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Mon, 03-01-2004 - 11:50am
welcome back! we missed ya!!


 
 
 
 

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Registered: 12-06-2003
Mon, 03-01-2004 - 12:06pm
Good Lord if I didn't know your name was Tony I would think you were one of my closest buddies...going through the exact same thing and you guys words are put together the same way..kind of eery..Anyway..you do whatever you need to do to stay healthy and happy..divorce is very hard and she may not be ready now but whose to say in a year she wont be ? Keep your options open , that sounds pretty crappy coming from a woman but I've been there done that on all accounts LOL..don't ever settle for second best! (again who am I to say this..grrr) Sorry this is kind of off topic but I hate to see people struggling in relationships , as if its not painful enough to break up or ride the fence of breaking up , it is worse when you don't have a support system..So good luck on whatever you decide to do..will send P&PT for you to remain sane throughout .