Taking a break OT(long)

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Registered: 12-06-2003
Taking a break OT(long)
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Mon, 03-08-2004 - 12:02pm

Just a short (or long knowing me) note to say I wont be around much for a bit..I just need to catch up and focus on my health and my life and I always seem to come to this board and feel like I'm bringing people down with my negative attitude . I'm not meaning to be negative and I may not even be coming across as negative but I "feel" like I am if that makes any sense . Then again I may just be all hormonal because AF is visiting today . :(


I have too much chit going on . I got into a big knock down drag out fight with ex-husband last night , He is telling me I am keeping our son (Adam) away from him but in reality the problem is we are 4 hours away from one another and I go out of my way to meet this tool(ex) half way anytime Adam wants to see him . Adam isn't that interested in going there often because he usually spends all of his time with his brother..fact he told me "I don't see my dad a lot cause him and "new wife" are always in the bedroom...ugh Niceeee haha .Not to mention most of the time ex says he has to work or his wife wont let him sue the car the list goes on and on with his ignorant ass .


So anyway now he is suppose to be getting an attorney today so he can have Adam 6 months out of the year . Our divorce decree gives me SOLE CUSTODY and ex is saying there was a stipulation I had to keep my son in the state of Oklahoma well Joe and I looked over the divorce papers last night and of course ex is full of crap there is no such stipulation . So his royal hineyness is going to do everything he can do give me crap . I am going here in a bit to the attorney general office to file for child support , I am just so stressed and sick of having to harass him for money for HIS CHILD!! He does pay eventually but it is very sporadic and has NEVER been on time . Funny he calls Adam the other day (for the first time since Christmas) on his new cell phone..yet he is still a month behind..2 months now on child support . I wish he would just sign away his rights . He stresses me out so bad and something I haven't told any of you..when he and I were together when I was 24 I had a heart attack . I don't tell anyone because it is very embarrassing because I am still obese and I am just ashamed that I haven't done anything about it . Well Dr's told me it was probably stress related as well as being obese wasn't helping(never a definite answer)

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Registered: 12-06-2003
Mon, 03-08-2004 - 5:03pm

OK..I am going lesbian now and going to date you al..HAHA jk..If I was gay Id totally be in love with ya'll though..cause everyone of you rock and really know how to make a person feel better . I went to the attorney general and took care of the problem now just waiting on the explosive phone call from exhole(stealing your word Shawna)


So I will be around./.I didnt mean to imply I was NEVER gonna be here..just stepping back and gonna lurk and maybe respond but will lay off on making new threads .


OH btw..I never ever get to make it to Sunday chat...what say we ask for an extra time also? Liek a second day for chat? :pout:


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Registered: 01-04-2004
Mon, 03-08-2004 - 5:14pm
I'm glad you're feeling better, April. That's what we're here for. And I'm glad that you're not leaving us!! Like I said before, these boards wouldn't be the same without you!!! You can vent with us anytime.

~~Linda

~~Linda

 

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Registered: 12-02-2003
Mon, 03-08-2004 - 6:19pm
LOL! I am glad you're not leaving us, April.

I know the FlyBaby board uses the chat room all the time- any hour, night or day. I would think we would be able to try an additional time.

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