taking some time away

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Registered: 01-07-2004
taking some time away
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Tue, 03-30-2004 - 8:38am
yes, it was as bad as i thought and i have a lot of thinking to do. i am under a lot of stress and i am minimizing as much as i can. i'll be lurking but ya'll i won't be posting.

good luck, congrats and hugs to everyone

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Registered: 12-06-2003
Wed, 03-31-2004 - 10:54am
Hey I live in Dallas...are you calling me a twit or the little snot that stayed the weekend? I can find her and kick her rear!
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Registered: 01-07-2004
Wed, 03-31-2004 - 11:05am
Now April how do you know it was a weekend??

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Registered: 12-06-2003
Wed, 03-31-2004 - 11:41am
lol...well didn't you say it was the weekend in yesterdays post?
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Registered: 01-07-2004
Wed, 03-31-2004 - 11:47am
NOOO, hmmm sneaky ya'll are.

oh damn i hurt. i really hurt.

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Registered: 12-02-2003
Wed, 03-31-2004 - 11:49am
Funny you should mention that, April.

Yesterday when Karrie and I were IMing I mentioned that since she's in Dallas you could find her and beat her up. ;-)

LOL!

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Registered: 12-06-2003
Wed, 03-31-2004 - 11:57am

Im so sorry Karrie girl... I know it blows big time...but if you want a good laugh go read my "sex is it worth it" post..you will laugh and forget the pain for but a second!


I must have just assumed it was the weekend since you didnt get to talk with him and you said he took her to the airport..::shrug:: I dont mind finding her and kicking her butt...or even just hog tying her so she cant get back to Houston

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Registered: 01-07-2004
Wed, 03-31-2004 - 1:08pm
i forgot about the monday post. I just am really scared of losing the silly man and i have to give him 2 weeks to sort through things. why does the idiot need to sort through things when he tells me that he knows it would be forever with me that i would make him a happy man forever. WHY THE HELL!!!!
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Registered: 12-06-2003
Wed, 03-31-2004 - 2:19pm
cause he is a man...ughhh...since when do men have emotions anyway?!?!?!?! Well this will give you time to reflect on the past month also and believe it or not this will make you
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Registered: 01-07-2004
Wed, 03-31-2004 - 2:33pm
yes yes yadda yadda...reflected on the month and damnit i want his kids...sheesh the man just needs to stop this crap and realize who is the real thing.

ok animal crackers are making me sick.

how am I going to make it until the 12th???

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Registered: 12-06-2003
Wed, 03-31-2004 - 4:04pm

Oh wow..I didn't realize you had so much emotion invested in this relationship..I knew you cared but having his kids wow..what a commitment..I am impressed..he must be a great guy!


Now..as for waiting until the 12th..are these his rules? Is he worth waiting on ? Has he told you he is waiting on you as well? I mean if a guy told me I had to wait 2 weeks on him to "make up his mind " or "think" I would say ok fine...give me a call when you get your crap straight but I am not going to sit and wait on you to make a choice..I AM FIRST CHOICE DAMMIT!!! ok..sorry I got a bit dramatic..but Karrie you really do deserve to be first choice ...thats just my opinion and I have been in a few relationships so maybe thats why I am such a hardass..I dont know .


I will happily listen to you and be a shoulder for you to cry on....I will leave it at that..you deserve the best..think on that one for a minute or two..LOVE YA CHICKA!