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taking some time away
| Tue, 03-30-2004 - 8:38am |
yes, it was as bad as i thought and i have a lot of thinking to do. i am under a lot of stress and i am minimizing as much as i can. i'll be lurking but ya'll i won't be posting.
good luck, congrats and hugs to everyone

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He asked for some time to sort through everything. I asked how long and I pressed him and he said 2 weeks. The deal is if he doesn't call by the 12th then I am. I am not waiting past that. Though I might press him a bit Saturaday evening when we are at the party. I don't like this not knowing how he is doing and I don't get why he isn't going nuts trying to figure out how I am doing. I am first choice but sometimes you have to wipe the cobwebs a way before you can see your first choice. I just don't understand how he can say that he knows it would be forever with me and then asks me for 2 weeks. He kept saying that he wanted to be 100% with me and that we were just slowing things down. OK, what the heck does that mean. I do know that guys mean what they say but heavens what in the world was that???
I have almost made it through the day without crying but I can't hold the tears back for much longer today. By the way, if telling me that he knows it would be forever and he would be happy with me and being the guy and meaning exactly what they say, then I would be the first and last woman he would ask to be with forever. I am half wondering if Jeff is trying to get through that as well.
I feel like a part of me is gone.
ok you may have gone all day without crying but your gonna make me cry
There's a song that i like with a verse 'there's a difference between lonely and lonely for way too long'. I've read a few times you mention marriage and kids just because that's what u want don't settle for the first guy. And i don't get why u would go to the party, make him go by himself you shouldn't be on his beck and go out with your friends instead. Just remember that the first few months of a relationship we go through with rose colored glasses but when something like this happens we need to take the glasses off and think about things. It's obvious that you care about him, you've stated it several time and i think almost all of your posts have mentioned him..lol..Good luck and get over being depressed and get pi$$ed. You're the wrong party so it's HIS responsibility to make it up to you and show you that he's worth giving another try. Hopefully you weren't the rebound girl or he's not a player but there's guys out there so seem great but are users..i've been friends with players they are great friends but terrible in relationships.
Edited 3/31/2004 7:09 pm ET ET by angelinoh
Karrie, Im not sure why you are getting upset at Angelinoh over her post.
Also, I am not some little thing that will sit back and let any man walk all over me. If at the end of the 2 weeks it doesn't end the way I think it should or he has not made up his mind. I am walking away. I have already made my mind up about that and he knows it.
No, it didn't rub me the wrong way. I didn't like the implications or the tone I precieved in it. IfI don't like how it is presented to me I am going to snap back. I don't mind how you presented it to me, Shawna I understood that you are saying it out of concern because the tone was there. However, I didn't read that in the previous post.
Good grief if I wanted to settle I would take my ex fiancee back.
My heart and my mind are saying the same thing. Don't worry I am not looking at this with rose colored glasses on. He has faults just like the rest of us and I am not going to judge him on that at all. I know he can be a dork and I know he is a sweet and kind person. I also know that he is caught between 2 people and it is going to be hard to make a decision. I also accpet the fact that he needs time to understand the implication of his statements to me. I am just very impatient and very scared.
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