Tuesday

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Registered: 01-07-2004
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Tue, 04-13-2004 - 9:32am
OK first off...Jeff hasn't made a decision yet and to be honest I wasn't expecting it. It was a very emotional talk and I know he feels very strongly for me. There is a lot that I can't even explain in a way to anyone beyond Jeff and I who can understand. But I am not angry and I am not upset to the point like I was. He has to work through more than his unresolved emotions for the ex. He needs to work through actually needing me and the committment he is going to make with me. I really can't understand why I am reacting the way I am reacting. I just know that now I am not suppossed to leave. I can't explain it and I don't how.

On other notes...I have lost another 2 pounds. HMMM, wonder if stress is a good thing? :)

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Registered: 09-12-2003
In reply to: karrietex
Tue, 04-13-2004 - 12:37pm
Well, at least let us know when the wedding is! Just think of the stories you'll get to tell your children about the start of your romance and how you won out in the end. I'm a sucker for happy endings!
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In reply to: karrietex
Tue, 04-13-2004 - 12:42pm
I am too. We shall see what happens. I have 2 good friends that went through something similar. They dated for a month broke it off for 8 started dating again for 2 months and knew they were going to be together forever. Now 7 years later and 2 kids they are happy and so sweet together.

So funny how when you start reading those romance novels you want that until you get it. AKKK.

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Registered: 01-04-2004
In reply to: karrietex
Tue, 04-13-2004 - 1:06pm
Hey Karrie! I'm just getting caught up on the posts now since I've been too busy this morning to read them. I know that the advice that you've been getting is well intentioned. I hope you realize that. I think everyone just wants to see you go through this without getting hurt. I agree with you, though, that only you know what's the right thing to do. We haven't been there for the conversations and we don't know this man. If you think that this is worth fighting for, then I think you should do it. Follow your heart. Just remember to be careful. I'm rootin' for ya!

~~Linda

~~Linda

 

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Registered: 01-07-2004
In reply to: karrietex
Tue, 04-13-2004 - 1:19pm
Linda...

Thanks and by the way I am dealing with "yankee" weather here. BRRRR what's up with cold fronts in April!!

I know they are and nothing has been said that I haven't been thinking myself. I'm being careful don't worry. And I am OK. The first big test for us is Thursday evening. That migth be an interesting night.

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