Being Overweight and Feeling UnAttractiv

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Being Overweight and Feeling UnAttractiv
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Fri, 05-21-2004 - 12:40am
I have a confession. I feel totally unattractive. Does anyone feel like that here? I am a single parent (16 yr ds) and was in a 10 yr bad relationship. It is ended, I am heavier than I have ever been and feel like about as attractive as a WWII rusty tank.

Can I be candid? The things that happen to a body this over weight- - - it's not lovely.

Does anyone else ever deal with tis and how? You can email me direct if your answer is private....dedendrew@aol.com Thanks for all responses and support....dede (D2)

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Wed, 05-26-2004 - 2:16pm
Well, all I can say is that I wear whatever I want. My stomach is pretty much flat anymore, so I wear shirts that show it, I wear low-cut jeans--whatever I want and I don't care what anyone thinks about it. My mom says stuff about it sometimes, and I just ignore it. I don't exactly love my body, but I am not gonna suffer, and plus when I get all old and saggy, I'll wish I'd have worn cute stuff when I was young enough to wear it. I'm fat, but I'm not gonna give up my youth for it okay?

And Dede, I hope everything gets better for you. You'll lose the weight and you'll find someone else hun, okay?

Sara

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Wed, 05-26-2004 - 6:25pm
whats up with tha tude in your post chica? chill out ;)
 
 
 
 

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Wed, 05-26-2004 - 6:32pm

Cat fight!

  Shawna-- Proud Cl for 100 Pounds or More to Go 

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Wed, 05-26-2004 - 6:34pm
lol shawna ...... im not cat fighting, people online dont make any difference to me ..... i'll never meet
 
 
 
 

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Wed, 05-26-2004 - 6:43pm

Well if it wasnt for the last line in her post, then I wouldnt think it was

  Shawna-- Proud Cl for 100 Pounds or More to Go 

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Wed, 05-26-2004 - 6:50pm

trust me its all good ...... lol ..... jus dont see why that post was even sent to my name in the first place when it wasn't directed to me .....and didnt care till the tude come out lol


::snaps on collar, shoves hands back in pockets and goes to find one of my men:: hahaha


 
 
 
 

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 05-26-2004 - 7:19pm
A collar???

Guinea Pig 4

  Shawna-- Proud Cl for 100 Pounds or More to Go 

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Wed, 05-26-2004 - 8:11pm
Shawna, I have to tell you I love your new signature picture. Two fur babies and the heart. Just love it! Hugs, Brenda


Edited 5/26/2004 8:12 pm ET ET by mebrenda

Hugs, Brenda 

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Wed, 05-26-2004 - 11:53pm
LOl Thanks Brenda =)

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Wed, 05-26-2004 - 11:56pm
hmmm..dogs?..lol..i don't see any animated ones