My humble opinion
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My humble opinion
| Mon, 08-16-2004 - 2:03pm |
I used to post a lot on this board but have stayed away because of the habit of a few poster for responding with less than supportive posts.
I really want to ask people to remember that this is a support board for people trying to lose 100 or more pounds.
If you can't be supportive don't post is my opinion.
I think we should all - read twice before pressing the post button.
Are our comments really helpful and worded positively?
If not, why bother?
I come here for support and encouragement - not to be simply told "it's all about calories in"
furry

Kerry
Shawn and Heather Thornton 7/16/04
Heather and Shawn 7/16/04
Some of us know that this cycle has been going on for months, if not years, with some of the posters. They succeed in driving away a few of us, then start up all over again w/a new bunch. The best thing to do is try not to get too riled (sp?) up with their superior, sarcastic tone and replies. Its hard, but when you get involved in an agrument with them, that is exactly what they want.
Oops, guess I added my two cents to yours! Sorry!
Dawn
Here, Here.
Fear
Sue
Alot of us find motivation and inspiration here. Perhaps you need to give it a second chance. The arguments are few and far between, and if you overlook them, you'll find a great place. If you focus on them, you're missing a great place.
Dawn
Thanks for starting this thread. I know I come here for support and I try to be positive and encouraging to others. It would be so great if we could just keep focusing on our objective: To give and receive (((((support))))) regarding healthier eating habits and exercise. I haven't noticed a whole lot of negativity. But, then again, I'm not able to read and respond to a lot of the posts...so maybe I'm missing these post (fortunately). I know that I have found some wonderful, supportive people here. *****Hugs******
Keeyah
I've only been coming to the board for about a month now and even I have noticed a change since then. We all need to remember why we are here - to support one another not to be confrontational and get others upset.
Sure everyone is entitled to their opinions but we deal with so much negativity and cynicism on a daily basis do we really want to face it here too? I know after a long day at work when I'm tempted to nip over to the corner store and buy a chocolate bar, I'd rather see postings on here that offer kind words of support, humour, and success rather than the constant debates and bashing that have been going on of late.
Hopefully the right individuals read this and get the message.
Cheers
Lisa