OT - I am at my ropes end.
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| Tue, 09-07-2004 - 8:20am |
Hi all.
This is way off topic and I am sure its going to be long, but I needed to vent.
I had a decent weekend filled with house work and some real work.
My ex husband and his family have been in contact this week because one of his siblings passed away and was close to members of my family. Well in the news of all this happening I was informed he is getting remarried. Not only was I shocked I was really upset as well. They are planning all sorts of things when we had a civil ceremony. They are planning on having children when the thought even came up between us it was shot down and now I am trying so hard to have a baby by myself.
I am honestly hurt more than I can imagine. With this and the episode two weeks ago with the ex b/f that some of you know about I am barely hanging on. I stayed OP because honestly my stomach was turning so bad I couldnt even imagine eating a damn thing.
I cant understand why in the world I cant even seem to have a man notice me and he of all people is getting married again. He is marrying someone from his culture. He is from Lebanon and I know he married me to get his green card so purpose served I guess. He filed for a divorce 6 weeks after he got his citizenship. So he got what he wanted and moved on. The ex b/f well I was there because none of the other women were stupid enough to move to him. But I was.
I am seriously depressed, I am not thinking about going to the gym at all I want to lock myself in my room and forget I exsist.
J


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Heather and Shawn 7/16/04
Please understand that this gophergreen is the freak show. You are a wonderful supportive person. Don't listen to this sick drivel.
Dawn
The fact that you were not loved by these men is no reflection on you, hon. It's a reflection on them because it sounds like both of these men sadly lack character. Just think...if you were still with either of them, would you truly be happy or would you be miserable? You deserve to have a man who will treat you with respect and dignity. You shouldn't have to settle for anything less. As others have said, you will get through this.(((((Hugs)))))
Keeyah
Bren
Please keep up all the good work you've accomplished, you not only have a weight goal, but you have a BABY goal!
And as for living alone, heck, move here and I'll go to art festivals with you (and my daughter too, she's determined to become a famous artist!) and all the other fun stuff friends do together (;
*hug*
- Yav
"What is an 'Oprah'?" - Teal'c, SG-1
Hugs, Brenda
Oh, and I hope his new wife gives him a SMOKIN' case of herpes.
Amy
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